I love him and hate him?

Question

Does anyone else feel like this.

I kinda have this feeling thats says i cant live without him but i also cant live with him??

Answer 1

oh yes, I feel like that.

My husband left me last year, I divorced him and moved on.  Now he's back, and we're trying to work things out.  I know I love him, but part of me still hates him for what he did to me and our daughter.  I hope that goes away so we can be happy, but  right now, it's just something I have to deal with in hopes that the love will win in the end.

Answer 2

I would say hate is a strong word,

Im in love with a girl and cant do without her, however we work, live and do everything together so she's bound to get on my nerves at times but the good times always out way the bad and maybe the bad times make us actually stronger.

Answer 3

LOL yah i feelz the same sometimes, it all depends of the days i guess, im just 15, so maybe thats it. atleast i know im not the only one that feelz like that now!!

Answer 4

You love him thats why. Its happening to me right now, i'm having issues with my boyfriend and i feel i hate him so much. But when i close my eyes to sleep and think of him, i know i love him so much.

Answer 5

Yea i have felt like that loads of times. Dont worry its perfectly normal. You could go on to this site for lots of other help and advice for girls only. its really good for this kind of stuff :) www.gurl.com

Answer 6

Hate is such a strong word. But yes...I know exactly what you are talking about. I feel the same way about my ex wife (although I wouldn't call it hate).  

Answer 7

YES

Answer 8

It's called love!

May be try spending some time apart from each other and it might rekindle some spark!?! Do you have and siblings?? If so, do you remember when you were younger and how much you hated them but you also loved them? I know it's a different love, but they annoyed you because they were always there!

Honestly, go away for the weekend on your own, relax and take some time out for yourself and have a think about it is you really want. I'm sure you will start to miss him!!

You should also make sure you're going out on girlie nights without him. It gives you more to talk about and time away from him and gets you closer to your friends.

You can't expect to live with them and love them all the time and vice versa! Everyone has annoying little niggles!!

Good luck and just put some work into the relationship and take some time for yourself!

Answer 9

Not anymore, but I used to.

Answer 10

It happens, don't worry you'll get over it.

Answer 11

Yes , its called being normal. I love the fact that its honest .See at times we tend to love our partner , but once being in a big argument etc it can turn into a hate feeling towards them . Its only being human. I don't think any relationship is perfect .And to this day , if there is one.Well, may god help them when they snap.

Have a good day.

Answer 12

What you sh'ld do is to keep doing those things that make you love him and less of those things that make you dislike him. You shouldn't use that word 'hate'. It carries more weight than you can possibly imagine.

Make a list of the things you dislike about him and then you change yourself and accept him as he is. Not the other way round as in trying to change him, ...that'll be a big mistake.

As a first step, some questions you might want to ask yourself is;

Do you,

Show respect?

Welcome each other home?

Try to look your best?

Wink at each other?

Celebrate birthdays in a big way?

Apologize quickly?

Forgive quickly?

Set up a romantic get-away?

Ask ‘What can I do to make you happier?

Put these to work and you'll be on the right track to take your relationship to the next level.

Answer 13

It is perfectly normal!! Everybody feels like this at one point or another. Its all apart of being in love!

Answer 14

typical woman:)

Answer 15

I think most couples feel like that to be honest. It's a natural thing when you spend so much time with one person. When you feel like you hate him, try to just walk away for a while and stay away from him until your feelings have changed a bit.

But this is perfectly natural and sure everybody feels like this.

Answer 16

I can honestly say I understand the feeling.  There are times in all relationships that we feel you cant live with them or cannot live without them.  As long as the cannot live without them is most of the time then the other times are normal.

Answer 17

Oh definatly!

I love/hate my guy.

one of our songs is by Three Days Grace- called "I hate everything about you" - the lyric is- i hate everything about you- Why do i love you?

LOL- I love him more than Hate though =)

Answer 18

ALL the time..  The past is hard to forget sometimes...

Answer 19

love is like a vanetion blind when your bored of him shut the blinds and be mad. either that or fire alan sugar lol  

Answer 20

Thin line between love and hate.