I love him. does he love me?

Question

hey! im a 14 year old girl who just started highschool. so im n love with this guy but he lives 4 hours away from me. he loves me too and we want to get married when wer older but right now we c other ppl. i love him sooo much and he returns every bit as much love as i give.we have almost had s*x but we stopped at 3rd base cuz wer gunna wait till wer married. even tho i only c him when his parents let him come down which is only a couple times a year...we talk on the fonee ALL the time. Now eveything seems perfect right? well things r startin to show up that i missed b4....on facebook he sends bumper stickers to many other girls that say "i love u" and "boom boom boom, i want u n my room" and "im always thinking about u" and "F CK now all we need is U" and i was like wtf? who r these girls? i mean he can c other ppl but he swore he would never fall n love with any one else. but hes sending all these sexual and lovey dovey bumper stickers and its starting to p**s me off. i havnt confronted him yet. also, one time when he came down for a visit he flirted with my bff the entire time!!!! and acted like i wasnt even there!!!!! so i really need yalls help!!! is he just going thru a guy phase or is he an a*****e/jerk/pig?

Answer 1

dump him!

ur too good for him

hes not committed in the relationship

and trust me the dreams u had with

him will never come truee

not to be mean or anything

but wen i was ur age i feel in love with this guy

and i thought he was the one for me

we planned our future together

we named our future children

planned our wedding

our dream house

and just everything

well our dreams never came truee

he ****** upp

and it hurted a whole lot

so u shud just dump him noww

save u from all the piann

Answer 2

Does he love you? If he does love you, you'd have no doubt and you wouldn't be asking this question. So most importantly, do you love him? That's what you have to ask yourself, it's not selfish to not want to be with someone purely because you don't love them.