I love my baby daddy but he's moved on, SHould I confess my feelings to him??

Question

I was with my baby daddy for four years and we broke up early 2008 and I still love him but I was afraid of his rejection, but now he moved in with his new girlfriend and its killing me and he barely helps out with the baby, but should I tell him how I feel or just let him do him?

Answer 1

He has moved on so should you. Forget about letting him do him and focus on doing you and your baby . Lift ya head and do better for the both of you. Let sleeping dogs ly. Stop thinking of yourself as a baby momma rise above that mentality. It can and has been done.

Answer 2

After 4 years and a baby I think he knows what your feelings are,,,,, Let him go,,, but make sure you take him to court for child support,,, He will be leaving this new girlfriend when she gets prenant too  maybe you will have another chance with him then  LOL,,,

Answer 3

Listen it will take sometime to move on but you need to do the same.  I am sorry that he doesn't help with the baby but if you can don't have any contact with him unless its about the child. Do your best not to have visual contact with him.  It will only make things worse.  Keep yourself busy with other things and it will pass. In a couple of years you will not even care if he is breathing.  Trust me on that one.

Answer 4

I say let him go and find someone better hope i help

                 Mwuah♥,

                        Kaity

Answer 5

He's moved on, and unfortunately  he has left you with a child. I think its time you moved on too. If you need help with the baby, ask a friend or family member to help you, someone you trust.

Answer 6

I'd say let him go, chances are if he didn't get you pregnant, he would have stopped talking to you a long time ago.  I'm not being mean, I'm speaking from experience.

Answer 7

if he doesnt help out with the baby thats a sign that he is a little selfish, and maybe you feel like you want him back only bc he is with someone else, that usually happens after breaking up from a long term relationship, i think you should wait a few months and see how things go with him and her and also to see if he shows any interest on helping out with the baby, and ask yourself if you can deal with everything that made you break up with him in the first place

Answer 8

If he didn't figure it out in four years, and if having a child together isn't enough to keep him around; he's either too dense or too much of a jerk to be worth your effort.  Let him go.