I love my best friend...What should I do?

Question

Is it bad to love her? Won't there be complications?

Answer 1

find out how she feels...but be sensitive bout it

Answer 2

Is it that bad to love your best friend???

there is no complications to love somebody.

Come On! be a real man and tell her you love her.

Answer 3

Are you the same gender? You didn't mention it. Not that it matters in the big picture but these little details can sometimes s***w up the whole relationship. I think you need to give us some more information.

Answer 4

Hi there,

NOTE: This is my personal opinion. I am not a professional. Use advice at your own discretion. You know what is best under your own circumstances.

Ahh, friendships are so beautiful. It's (in my opinion) the easiest way to build a relationship from. Why? Because you already have a basis on which you guys have a relationship!

Well, I can't promise that things will work out, but these sort of things have a funny way of turning out in the end. But let's be realistic: You have to find out if she feels the same way about you. You guys are best friends, right? Obviously, you can talk to her about it, or find other ways (get creative!) to express your feelings (i.e. a song, a note, a casual comment). Hmm...it sounds like you love this lady a lot.

I personally don't think it is "bad" to love her. In an odd way, it could even be considered natural...I mean, you know her so well, it would only be the next step to take it further, right? Well, there MIGHT be some complications, but there very well might not be...It all depends on a number of different factors that probably nobody on Yahoo!Answers can tell you: How strong is your relationship with this lady? How does she feel about you? How would she react to a break-up, if you guys had one? Would it feel akward afterwards? Would you two stay friends? How would she react if you asked her out? Is there anything in the way of your relationship (your best guy friend is also in love with her, her parents don't allow her to date, etc.)?

I guess only you have the answers to those questions. Just something to think about.

Anyway, if you do decide to keep this love to yourself (which you very well may choose to do!), you can just wait and see.

If you get rejected (there is a possiblity she doesn't feel the same way, but I'm not sure how big this possiblity is.), how would you feel? Would it change the way you guys regard eachother? Would you two remain friends, or would it be really akward? How would she feel?

I hope this answer helps. I told you as much as I could, now it is up to you. Do whatever you choose, but let your heart and your mind guide you.

I wish you all the best. Good luck!