I love my bf, weve been out for nearly 2 years, n been thru a lot together...?

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but he doesnt work n i have been for a while now :( his addicted to green n wants to stop does any1 have any suggestions, coz me n his mum cant help him atm coz we r skint n he does rele want a job n would try really hard wen he gets 1 his with an agency, but its so hard to push him without upsetting him, his living wiv a mate which he hates n i rent with another girl 10 mins away, i just feel helpless coz his always depressed n theres nothing i can do anymore but i stick thru it because i need him too! i just want him to be happy, n i think gree would be the first step but how do u help someone get off it coz its so psychological, has any1 had any first or second hand experience with relationships like this?! please help lol x*x

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"coz me n his mum cant help him atm coz we r skint n he does rele want a job n would try really hard wen he gets 1 his with an agency"

Sorry but I have no idea WTF this means??? Is he a lazy pot-head that won't work? Tell him to get off his *** and get a job or you will leave him. It ain't that hard....work or be single.