I love my boyfriend but I have a crush on another guy?

Question

I don't know what to do. I love my boyfriend and I don't wanna throw away what I have with him for another guy, but I keep thinking about one of my guy friends who I recently started to have a crush on. I don't really know if I have an actual CRUSH on him...but I haven't seen him in months and I've really started to miss him. What should I do? How can I keep him off my mind? Also, my guy friend has a girlfriend so he's definitely off limits.

Answer 1

If you have a crush elsewhere,your probably doubtin the relationship your in.Whether it be your love,his love,the stability of you 2 bein together or whatever the case may be.Everyone has eyes and thoughts.Things that appeal to them and stuff.It's not unnatural to see somethin that appeals to you while bein in a relationship,but if it turns into a crush,there has to be doubt in where your at.If the crush is in a relationship elsewhere you need to forget it or accept the fact that your just lookin 4 a way out of where your at.

Answer 2

Focus on why you love the man that you are with now. What is it about him that you love so much? If you keep this on the top of your mind, pretty soon your crush will begin to fade and you will be thankful that you didn't let it get in the way.