I love my close friends boyfriend!?

Question

DUDE! I cant help it, he's so sweet, so genuine. Im always with her, & he's always with her, so im spending alot of time with him,....ALOT of time. I'm FALLING FOR HIM. Im upset because i cant have him. I know he likes me too, we got high together and we kissed & basically "dry humped" when his girl was sleeping. Yeah i feel like ****, but what can i do im in love.

Answer 1

You need to decided what is more important your friendship or your lust.  A piece of advice...  If he is willing to cheat on her with you it will not be any different if he is with you...  If he did it to her he will do it to you.

Answer 2

w***e.  

Answer 3

:o

That was wrong of both of you to do!

Just think,

if he was your boyfriend, you wouldn't

want her to be all up on your man, would you?

I think not.

Answer 4

Thats actually kind of S****y if thats a real question to be honest with you. And if thats a real question, I just hope your smart enough to be with him like a boyfriend/girlfriend. Trust me your not to special to him if he is doing that to you while his girls asleep. And on top of that your his girls best friend. But you did say you was high and I love weed. So I decided to answer. If your gonna s***w your friends boyfriend tell her when you do. You should tell her what happened so far. Help eliminate Karma from it happening to you. You really want that to happy to you one day with one of your friends and your boyfriend? If you tell her and its your girl she wont get mad if she is real. She should be happy to find out. Cause if it was another chick. And there are other chicks trust me. She would never find out.

Dont be a w***e baby girl. Do what and who you want. But dont s***w over your friends. Thats what makes you a w***e. You do any and everything for the next guy regardless of who he with. You should be hanging out with you friend and her boyfriend in the first place. In order to stay out of s*&t like rumors dont get into situations that start them.

I hope your young. An older chick wont pay this any attention

Answer 5

That is wrong what you did she is your friend why would u do that, i know it wasnt your attencion.... its not your fault it was your heart

Answer 6

you should tell ur friend

Answer 7

dont do what you dont want others to do with you...

bad friend

Answer 8

lol... w***e

Answer 9

awww well ive been in the same situation as well though worse D:, my best advise is if she really is your close friend just end what you have going with the guy, let her be happy cause there are other guys out there just right for you, if u do decide to go with the guy your risking your friendship with the girl and your reputation.

Answer 10

lol nothing is true when your high stupid my friend told me he thought he saw god taking a **** in his bathroom i dont think it was true

Answer 11

OH NO! you dont do something like that to your friends boyfriend! if your honestly in love with him you need to tell your friend... and she needs to know about the kissing and dry humping too.

Answer 12

Ouch, have some backbone and some self-esteem. Be a real friend. There are millions of other guys out there. You don't need to do this to your friend. So what if he likes you; what he did behind his girlfriend's back makes him sooooo not worth it. he will cheat on you too if you were his girlfriend. You call him sweet and genuine, when he is a creep for kissing around and more, all while his girl was sleeping??!!?? If you don't stop yourself from falling for him, get far away so there is not an urge to be with him. You don't deserve this and neither does your friend. Your girlfriend sounds like a nice person to be so trusting with you and him, she is in for a real shocker and huge letdown when she finds out. Better to stop now and get away from this guy, because you will not be happy with this dude..

Answer 13

is it worth losing your friend?

Answer 14

I'm sorry for the situation you're in, but I doubt you're in love. You hardly fall in love with a person who you don't spend affectionate time together. And if you ARE really really in love with him, you're going to have to deal with it. What you did to your friend was really bad. Are you going to dump your friend for a guy? They barely last anyways. And, if he was willing to do that to his GF, he's not as great as you think he is. It contradicts the whole "he's sweet and genuine" thing. He cheated on his GF with her best friend. It's a slap in the face to your friend. He's a jerk for doing that to her. If he's going to do that to her while they're going out, he could do that to you. Good luck and I hope everything turns out alright.

Answer 15

Can't you tell all this is about s*x.  Go try a knot hole in the fence, if you are a guy and if you are a girl, GO TO CHURCH and get some RESPECT!

Answer 16

you got high and kissed and dry humped? thats pretty whorish

well idk if your like that already just ditch her and go with him, tell him to pick you or cheat

i know a lot of people who get high and its fine, but you kissed and thats cheating, even if your high you know wat your doing

Answer 17

Typical Pothead!