I love my friend... But she's a girl?

Question

I've been trying to lie to myself about it for years now but she really is the most beautiful thing in the world. I can't get her out of my head. Thing is though, I don't know if she likes girls... I mean she's flirted with me and stuff and even like... kissed me but only a quick peck. I mean she was crying one time when we were in high school and I went out into the hall with her to make sure she was okay and we spent the whole lesson with me sat against the wall and her resting her head in my lap. I just don't know what to do. But there's another problem, I have a boyfriend who I've had for a month now and I'd feel bad leaving him if she was interested... I'm just so confused.

Answer 1

Well....there is a strong possibility that she does like you as well...but I don't think you should leave your current bf just for her...that isn't too nice..in the meantime just remain friends w/ her..live life and everything else will just fall into place..email me if ya need any help

Good Luck

~Nisha

EDIT: Oh and if you haven't already you can post this Q in the LGBT section..just to get more answers...http://answers.yahoo.com/dir/;_ylt=AqY4V...

Answer 2

uu could askher in a casual way..for example tell her sum girl asked you if u were bi and just ask her like wat about u so it doesnt seem random and if shes not she wont really suspect or start feeling wierd about u

Answer 3

just randomly ask would you ever be bi and if she asks why just say idk. i am the same way i asked and she said maybe you and i said maybe. it worked out in the end. you wont reget it and youll never know untll you ask

Answer 4

um please stay straigh!!!. and i think the girl only considers you a close friend. she doesnt sound bi at all.

no one naturally feels attracted to the same s*x except as a friend. so someone probably put it in yr head that yr bi or something but dont be like that. keep yr boyfriend!!!

Answer 5

Talk to her to see how she feels.  It could be nothing or she could care for you.  Make sure this is something you're wiling to commit to if she says she does have feelings for you.  Decide if it would be worth leaving your boyfriend for.  Make sure you're happy in the end.  I know what you're experiencing.  It's scary at first, but if she feels the same way you do, it's the greatest feeling in the world!  Good Luck!!

Answer 6

Dont leave your bf, this girl is prob just a good friend by the sounds of it.

Please let me assure you that many girls go through the same feelings at some point in their life, although it is usually in most cases just a phase.

Good luck ;-)