I love my husband alot but sometimes i feel he is too sensitive and it gets me angry is it wrong of me?

Question

if i dont hold his hand or i am not all over him every second of the day, he starts crying! i mean i love how he opened up to me and i wouldnt mind if he cried for something that was a big deal but he seriously cries for every little thing? and he has done it so many times, that when he crys now, it just gets me angry( well if its for something i think is stupid) am i wrong for not talkin about it with him every time he cries?

Answer 1

there are a lot worse tendencies he could have.

Answer 2

It looks like he has some self-steam problems or is trying to manipulate you. In either case he needs to see a specialist and you need to help him do it.

Anna del C.

Author of "The Elf and the Princess"

and "Trouble in the Elf City"  

Answer 3

It's hard to see the situation clearly since there are not many specifics. But the truth is maybe cause of your callousness he feels like he (subconsciously) wants to know you care. But truly anyone who cries (with actual tears) over every little thing is probably going through a chemical imbalance or dealing with some real childhood abuse that needs real professional help.

All in all, he is your husband and yes you need never ignore his strong feelings but if you really need to take care of something first, then tell him you will talk later, then come back and take time with his issue, when it's appropriate.

Hope this helps.

ps. here is a site that may  help you find a counselor:

http://www.aacc.net/resources/find-a-cou...

Answer 4

Sounds like he has emotional issues. All you can do is gently talk to him about this. Yes it would annoy me. I do totally agree he could have a much worse habit. I think this is workable.  

Answer 5

You need to talk with him about it before it gets you really angry. The last thing you want do is keep all of your feelings bottled up inside. Best to be straight forward - and ask him why he is crying. Maybe if you get the answer to that you can go about solving it.  

Answer 6

He has emotional problems. He needs to see a therapist/pscychiatrist

Answer 7

WE ARE TALKING OVER A TWO WEEK PERIOD HE GOT REAL  SENSITIVE MAYBE YOU SHOULD ACT LIKE YOUR LISTENING AT LEAST THAT WAY HE WILL AT KEAST  THINK IS ALSO IONPORTANT TO YOU THIS RELATIONSHIP NOT JUST A JOKE  LIKE BY JUST FALLING SLEEP WHEN HE IS TELLING YOU ABOUT HOW HE IS FEELING *****!!!!!!!

Answer 8

Tell him to grow a pair.  Tell him you are heterosexual and he needs to quit embarrassing you and start acting like a guy.  Otherwise you will drop him off at a L*****n bar or a WBA locker room.

Answer 9

sounds like a sissy