I love someone, I want to know if I can make love to him or should I wait until we get married?

Question

We have 5 months since we are together, I think I love him and he loves me to, but I don't know what to do because I am virgin and it's a hard decision to make. I was educated to wait until I'm married, but I want to do that with someone I love and loves me to.

Answer 1

You should wait, true love waits and that shows that you love them enough to wait and keep your marriage pure. It's also a proven fact that marriages where both spouses practiced abstinance resulted in better marriage without so many divorces and cheating because they have self control and also, you know if your spouse practiced abstinance and has self control that you won't get STDs  

Answer 2

wait !

Answer 3

Really only you can answer that question, not really a question you should be asking stangers about.  but my advice.  Wait. 5 months is not that long, the effects of sleeping with someone, good and bad, can last forever.

Answer 4

You said you "think" you love him...if your not sure WAIT.....you might think it's love but it's not especially when your NOT sure. If he loves you he would wait.......

Answer 5

Everyones gotta lose it at some point.  That whole waiting till your married c**p doesnt fly with anyone who isnt as religous as you are.  Dont know how young you is but you sound young and maybe you should hold off if you aint sure.  Gotta warn you though,everyones first time is terrible and embarrassing.  Its funny to look back on ,but going through, it everyone fumbles the ball.

Besides if you dont trust the fool you with enough to be intimate with him then maybe you should move on.