I love someone who already has a bf and don't know what to do? suggestions?

Question

I pretty much love this girl i used to date. I click with her and could picture myself dating her. She has a boyfriend but still likes to sleep with me on the side every now and then. For once i think its not fair to me or her current bf. I don't want to be her **** but can't find it in me not to because i want to be with her in some way so i take any time she gives me. Suggestions?

Answer 1

Ew, what a s***k she is! Honey, if she's willing to step out on her man, then what makes you think that she'll ever be faithful to you? You know as well as the rest of us do that she'll cheat on you even more quickly than she did her current bf.

Go find a nice single girl who isn't comfortable decieving & betraying the person she claims to love. If it had been meant to be, it would have happened the first time. I think she sees you as someone she can manipulate. Tell her that you will not sleep with her until she leaves her boyfriend & that you want her to be monogamous. I guarantee that she'll high tail it out of there faster than a cat getting sprayed with water.

Answer 2

You're selling yourself short.  If you just want a piece of *** that's one thing, but if you're talking love... I hope you don't just settle for whatever time a girl will give you.  

Answer 3

You need to cut contact with her as hard as that may be for you. She's playing her boyfriend and she's using you and neither of you deserve it. You have to know she won't break up with her boyfriend or she would've done it by now; she won't because she's thinking "why would i when i have the boyfriend figure and the person who will s*x it up for me when i need it?". She'll continue to use you until you put a stop to it.

Say good bye to her and explain why then just cut off all contact, if you need recovery time so be it, but then start looking for other girls. There are girls out there that will appreciate you the way you deserve.

Best of luck :)

Answer 4

be her **** until she gets bored with her bf

Answer 5

NEWS FLASH: She's a **** & doesn't care about anyone other than herself. Even if she were to dump her boyfriend, she'd be cheating on you faster than you can say "unfaithful".  

Besides, if it was going to work out, it would have worked out the first time the two of you dated. It didn't, so now you have to man up & stop sleeping with her. The person you think you love isn't the person she actually is. You love someone who will never exist & will never treat you the way you should be. Leave her & find a girl who will be with you & with you only. I guarantee that not only will you find a better girl, but that you will love this new girl more than you could ever love this s***k.

Answer 6

Don't sleep with her. That's not a good thing. Just be her friend.  

Answer 7

i dont think you should sleep with her coz she may think you as her bit on the side. dont let her know that your willing to sleep with her play hard to get. Show her that you have feelings for her by flirting with her and perhaps buy her small gifts but dont be desperate.

i hope that helps =]

Answer 8

maby talk to with her to try to see if she likes you if she does try to get her to break up with him so you can get with her