I love to hate her I hate to love her...its my mom!!!!

Question

My mom is like the best person in the world but she has the stupidest rules and is really mean SOMETIMES not a lot!!!!!! I want to tell her that I dont want her to be mean to me sometimes but I dont want her to get mad!!!! HELP PLEASE!!!!!

I love her though she rocks!!! :)

Answer 1

Sounds like normal teenage parent issues.

Answer 2

Honesty is the best policy.  Have a sit down chat.  Tell her what you like about her first.  Then tell her there are somethings you are upset about.  Dont raise your voice and then listen when she talks.  Ask her about the rules.  And see if she can lift some.  Ask her to trust you more.  

Answer 3

sounds exactly like my mom. try 2 just sit down and talk 2 her it worked 4 me.

Answer 4

ughhh i know exactly how you feel!! try writing her a letter describing how you feel r just plain having a heart to heart sometime works...she wont get mad if your respectful and dont raise your voice!!!

Answer 5

Try sitting down and talking to her when you're calm and feel confident about a good time. Explain to her what's really bothering and then listen to what she says. Maybe then, you'll both understand each other and come to a very mutual agreement.

Hope this helps.

Answer 6

Try talking to her about her rules. Tell her what you think about them, and maybe she can bend them a little.Give her good reasons to change them, and if its a trust issue she has, give her reasons to trust you.