I m a girl........in 11th class.there is a problem with me.so plz give your suggetions 2 me.?

Question

this problem doesn't seems so big but it is big 4 me.i m in 11th class.I got 89% in 10th class.i was regarded as an intelligent girl till 10th as i was always in top 2 rankers.All teachers liked mebut as i entered 11th class, my % are decreasing.i got 55%paper was so tough(highest in the class were 63%)but 8 students hav got more marks than me. now no teacher is paying intrest in me.teachers luv only top rankers & they r becoming sooooooo proudy.even though i study hard than them then also i got less marks.i m not able 2 defeat my comptiters & this is depressing me.from a talented student i m considered as an average 1.i know my biggest comptition is with me only.if i work 4 my aim then there will b no 1 who can defeat me.i believe in healthy comptition..in studies jealousy should not b there.i m not jealous of any1 but they r behaving as if they r most superior & brilliant.i want my lost position back but i had lost my confidence i want 2 b the 1st rankholder but how?i want motivation

Answer 1

When your friends boast about themselves........listen  to them.........and at that time keep on listening to them till it doesn't hurt u from inside..........coz WEN IT REALLY HURTS U START WORKING FOR IT.......!!!

Answer 2

Hello there! I was really moved by your post that I have to answer. First of all, you already know what you want, and that is to get high grades. But you seem pressured with how everyone else in your class (those who rank better than you) are acting towards you, and how the teachers ignore you. That is one of the reasons why you can't seem to concentrate. You can study hard and get good grades if you start thinking that you're doing it for your own happiness and not just to please your classmates and teachers. Don't mind them. Don't think of how they see or think of you. When you study, don't think of anything but yourself. If they feel proud or if they boast around, don't get affected. Just think that they are being proud or boastful because they probably only experienced being on top now, while you were on top even before. Read a lot, do advanced studying, but never forget to rest and have time for fun. You are most effective when you are relaxed and happy so make sure that when you open your books and and study, you are happy, your mind is clear and you are not tired and you are relaxed. So there. And oh, don't forget to pray, whatever religion you have. :)

Answer 3

You sound motivated already. If you want to do well, just work for it, which I'm sure you are already doing. Remember: School is about how much you learn, not having the highest grades. You can learn a lot and not have good test scores.

Answer 4

to me, it seems you answered your own question. you want to be 1st, that is your motiviation. To be 1st you have to be the best, you have to make sacrifices and do whatever it takes to get there. The teachers dont pay attention to you? So you talk to them, ask them as many questions as you can, pick their brains until you know how to do what they are asking.

Answer 5

so simple to get ur place , how ? believer no competitors is being with you , ur mind is lost with the competition but keep in your subject only, if do so you are becoming a depth person in your subject i.e u l b no 1

bye

Answer 6

since you do not appear to be in special ed, you have asked your question in the wrong category

this is the Special Ed section!

Answer 7

i don't know which stream u hav taken (hope sci if so then )let me tell u in 11 & 12 th std exams r always tuff & aiso techers giv marks economically.Don't worry u won't get this kind of marks in 12th final exams.u work hard from ur side u will get success.dont care bout what others will think if u work hard & achieve ur goal all teachers & even toppers will respect u.just dont get depressed & study cool mindedly.try to find out what are ur weaknesses is it tv,friends or anything else.if there is then u will hav to overcome it.it is a crucial time for u so u will hav to focus on ur studies.may god bless u & pass thru all exams well