I m finding it hard to talk to people why is that ,?

Question

i don't find the right words ,sometimes i fail at finding good speech not lack of education or shyness but I just feel lost when I talk to people .

i ve been a loner for many years now and i find it hard to communicate with people even emotionally ,whenever someone leaves me i say so what and i continue my life .that

Doesn’t mean i don’t feel sad, i feel sad most of the time but it becomes so clear that i m losing the ability to be among human

i communicate with animals more and better

Why is that, no mocks plz

Answer 1

Im not saying you could have this but you may have Aspergers.  I can see signs of it in you from what you were saying cause I have aspergers.

Most of us aspergers find it better to be with animals than humans. You could go to your GP and find out if you have it or not.

Good luck

Answer 2

i really wish i could answer that for you...but i'm the same and it's hard  

Answer 3

So maybe you keep a healthy distance for your own reasons and we won't know what they are but you could certainly spend some time trying to analyze it.

There is nothing wrong with it unless you feel there is.

Animals generally give unconditional love and make wonderful companion's that don't stress you out like humans like to do so it is understandable how you feel about animals.

Fun ways of getting to know yourself better are to read up on your star sign, get a chart done, and look at it in relationship to your behaviour.  You don't have to believe in it but it is a fun way to open up and begin to look at your personality without investing a lot of money.  It can give you confidence in knowing yourself better and even pairing you up with star signs that would be a better match for you socially.

People have a tendency to open up more when they join in groups or activities with people who share similar interests, likes, music etc....  You can only find out by participating and joining things in your community.  

Even get a dog and your life will change, you will have to go out and walk it and find a lot of people out there to talk to, even if briefly.  Little by little you would gain more interest perhaps.

Good luck, you will find something that really interests you and then you will find the words and feel much more comfortable to talk freely.

Answer 4

i had quite alot of friends up untill GCSE years, because you choose your subjects and get split from your friends i drifted apart from them, so i left and went somewhere else for 6th form but during the summer i got as many part time jobs i could where i had to communicate with the public so i was much better for when school started. i dunno how old you are but doing that helped me alot, so if your 18, 19 or what ever, give it a go

Answer 5

i use to be really shy... not quite your situation. im transgenderish. so ive always had social issues.. basically conversation is listening and adding on... it doesnt matter at all what you say, just as long as a good person is saying it, a nice personality, and basically you have to bring yourself upfront and offer something different to the table. im only 18.. so excuse my childnish. loves ya bunches..

Answer 6

Most likely you find it hard because of a lack of comfort. It seems as if you have isolated yourself so long as you say for years that you have completely lost it on how to communicate with others. When I say lost it is not completely lost, just forgotten and to awake it you must just simply put communicated with others and it will be found again. There really is no real proper way to communicate.

Answer 7

maybe you dont talk to people you really trust

Answer 8

I'm not making personal judgments, but going by what you said here and on your profile.

When talking with your animals you are free to empty your thoughts and say what's on your mind because animals are not judgmental and this makes you feel that they care. However, with people you feel intimidation. Change your thoughts about yourself, love everything about yourself, and this will slowly build your self confidence. You will begin to enjoy life and people more.

You are remarkably honest, open, and caring. Those are good things to love yourself for. Start there. Add to that you have the ability to use the Internet. Many people still can't do that. Take care. Be Blessed! PS Learn to laugh. Laughter does good like a medicine.

Answer 9

You have posted your question under Psychology. Who diagnosed you with a psychological problem and what did they suggest as a means of treatment?