I m so broken my bro keeps on doing....? ?

Question

my bro keeps on humiliating me.in the past called me w***e and spitted on me i forgave cuz God said if u want to be forgiven then forgive too so i did but tonight we were watching CSI Miami and there was a s*x scence and he is so immature that to make fun of me he said what are they doing there?i ignored n said lol i dont expect u 2 know u ve never done anything neither had a gf he is 24 and hasnt finished college and he is starting over so after that he said i dunno so teach me u know u r the master.He says all that cuz my bf is not from my country and has a different religion ...I ignore him i m 16 and i really get hurt i have never kissed any guy never no one has touched me and he tells me these stuff just cuz he knows that i talk about EVERYTHING with my bf..what can i do?i ignore him but i get so hurttttttt i m sensitive but what can i do?

Answer 1

hes a stupid t**t.if he lived aniwhere bi me  id kill him.spit bak at him.or tell me where u liv and ill kill him.little ****.its out of order.

Answer 2

my brother was 6 years old than me - i think he cared for me but he spent most of his life tormenting me, teasing me, embarrassing me, etc. He joined the Air Force and went to war. We seemed to get closer because he was now far away overseas. I didnt see him for many years. When he did come home, things were better. But the longer I was around him the more he started teasing me and making fun of me.

So I had to accept the fact that we cared about each other but our personalities clashed and we just couldnt spend much time in each others presence.

A couple of years ago he died; but before he died , he gave his life to Jesus Christ and asked for forgiveness about the way he treated me. Keep praying for your brother and just try and keep distance between you until he matures;  hopefully soon, with faithful prayers he will turn his life around. But until then, try do stay away from your brother; don't watch TV with him or hang around him - you'll just be giving him more opportunities to hurt you and control you.

Answer 3

i would punch him in his mother ******* face for spitting on me

Answer 4

I would let him know how you feel. It sounds like he is jealous of your relationship with your boyfriend.

Answer 5

first you've got to understand that this is your brothers problem, not yours.  clearly he is jealous of you. its not easy but i would advise you to distance yourself from him and if you find an appropiate time try and talk to him and tell him how you feel and tell him he has to stop treating you like this.  try and stand up for yourself, dont let him get to you.  tell him to back off and to give you a break. there is no good reason for his behaviour. its unacceptable. tell him how much it hurts you. i would even consider telling your parents about the situation if it gets any worse. don't let him bully you.

dont worry about not having kissed anyone. its no big deal, you are only 16. you'll get to that point when you're ready and it'll happen. there is no need to rush it. honestly you have your whole life ahead of you.  take your time. do it when your ready and enjoy yourself!