I made a BIG mistake?

Question

me and my friend have been friends since 6th grade and then i told her something very mean to her and then she gave me another chance and then i guess i blew it when i met her at my high school thing cuz my other friends pulled me away from her and now she totally hates me and calls me fake and is going to BACKSTAB ME what am i going to do!!! :(

Answer 1

Be upfront and tell her how you feel. If she is a true friend she will understand.Just be honest with her.

It is great to make new friends but don't you ever forget about our old friends because they have stuck with you way longer.  

Answer 2

stop being fake...... maybe treat her with the respect she deserves, I bet she's a true friend when these other "friends" don't really care what happens to you.

Answer 3

lmfao in a few weeks none of this will matter don't sweat it.

Answer 4

YO just chill  man, be like if u backstab me i can do far worst, so lets just call it even and go watch hannah montana

Answer 5

yes you did!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...     just tell her that she has small b***s and that she is fat she should forgive you.

Answer 6

Tell an even worse secret!

Answer 7

No offense but you girls make a big drama of everything about backstabbing, just tell her that your friends pulled you away and it wasn't your fault, if she can't accept that then it sounds like she doesn't want to be your friend at all

Answer 8

you need to have a serious talk with her. Right now it may seem like its ok to stop being her friend but think about all the good times you had and then think about if you really want to end your friendship with her...Its better not to burn bridges...good luck..

Answer 9

apologize to her and tell her your sorry. talk with her... tell her you want to be friends.

Answer 10

You can start by learning how to write less vague questions with incoherent structures.

Answer 11

forget her and find new friends, you probably wont take my advice, though from experience I really think its the best thing to do, or else you will just keep getting hurt.

Answer 12

correct it

Answer 13

You should apologize to her.  You're acting like a jerk.

Answer 14

tell her the truth. tell her that ur other friends pulled u away from her not u. so tell her that ur friendship cant end now n u guys r going to hav ups and downs. so its ok

Answer 15

The only thing you can do is sincerely ask for forgiveness and ask for a second chance.

After that, act on her reply.

If she says no, leave her be. Shes either hurt, mad, sad, or just plain done with you.

If she says 'give me some time' give her some space. Don't be all up in her face or anything.

If she forgives you and says yes. Don't. Blow. It. Think of what you say before you say it, and be careful on how you act.

Now if she still does something nasty after you say sorry.

Forget about her.

But girl, you need watch how you treat your friends.

Answer 16

if she doesnt understand then shes a ***** and u need new friends

Answer 17

apologize! tell her you have been acting stupid and please forgive you, even though you don't deserve it.

Answer 18

Apologize and come up with an excuse. Stress or something, you kinda snapped in their direction.  

Answer 19

Go up to her and truly tell her your sorry.

Answer 20

Let it ride. Give it time to chill. It's possible that you may have ended a friendship so be prepared for that too.

Answer 21

I did something like that...

i totally was terrible with one of my best friends. sometimes its harder to talk to someones face, so what i did was writing a letter. i wrote it and slipped it through her p.e locker. she found it and read it (of course) and she told me it was ok, and she understood i was sorry.

And even after that I was once again mean to her. and he she didnt want to forgive me this time. but i told her my true feelings. if the friend you have doesnt forgive you, she might not be that great of a friend.. but then again it depends on how you do it.

so good luck.

and saying sorry is always something people HAVE to do after they do something they feel bad for..

so its all gonna be ok! :)