I made my sister upset, what should I do?

Question

I made her angry as she was trying to move the couch. I told her that I wouldn't help her move the new one in because of her impatience.

She took it all up to herself, she tried to move the new one in, I admit that I provoked her by saying that she was scraping everything.

I offered my help, and when I did, she was very hostile and even got aggressive. I yelled at her to stop, and I also yelled that she was too impatient and that's why she was ruining things.

As soon as I saw she was getting out of line. I locked her out of the house, she threatened to break one of our windows with an umbrella, and I told her that it was fine as long as she paid for the new one.

She found her way back into the house by crawling through the bathroom window. As soon as she got to the entrance where the sofa was, I told her that she was being too unreasonable and impatient and then she started to purposely bump the furniture on the steps. I locked her out again and later, my sister spotted her crying.

She went out, I'm pretty sure she didn't go too far out, but I only can guess that she went to her friend's place.

What should I do?

What can I do to apologize?

Answer 1

yea you should you jacka`ss

my bro did the same today

i hate him.

Answer 2

Personally if i was in the same situation then I wouldn't apologise I mean why should you? She's the one in the wrong i think you just just call her and ask if she wants to talk it over.. I mean after all she was immature enough to go down to that level. Just check out at her friends house and see if shes there like just to make sure that she is safe.. she'll come around eventually chick trust me family always do :)..Best of luck x*x

Answer 3

Be kind.  Go and find her and tell her you're sorry.  Siblings need each other.  Life is too short to spend being mean and nasty.

Answer 4

Try acting like a decent human being...that's how you can apologize.  Why did you do that to her...right from the beginning you were wrong and there's no excuse for your behavior.

Answer 5

try this

http://www.oprah.com/article/relationshi...

Answer 6

you both sound impatient... tell her youre sorry... and you get your mouth from her, make a joke out of it, then make up.. your sisters, you guys will get over it like nothin. just a sibling fight.