I made out with a 36 year old woman yesterday and im 19 shes a family friend what should i do?

Question

i was at my cousins wedding yesterday and theirs this lady which is my cousins friend she comes to almost all are family party's oh and shes really hot, so she knows allot of my family where i live. i asked her to dance and i ended up telling her she was beautifully and i liked her. we had an after party at my house and she was their. to make a long story short she slept over in my room and allot of my family knows she did so now everybody talking about her and calling her a s**t and talking allot of **** about her,she has 4 kids and shes separated with her husband, we did make out all night and some other things, but we didn't have s*x.i fell really bad because she was telling me this was going to happen and the whole time she was sleeping over she kept saying this is wrong.but i have my way with words.what should i do to stop people from talking bad about her and stop from her and my cousin not being friends anymore. what should i do to make myself feel better. thanks for you comments ps i lied and told her i was 22

Answer 1

Whoooo boy, have you landed yourself into a whole lot of drama.

I suggest you break it off NOW, before things get even worse.

Answer 2

dont say it was your fault she will just take the blame more your fam will say "well shes older she should know better"

just deny it be like i kept asking her to kiss me make out atc but she denied

Answer 3

Well considering how its your fault I'd take the blame.

Answer 4

You need to be honest and tell everyone you seduced her. By the way, NICE WORK!!!

Answer 5

1, you shouldn't of lied to her. 2nd, if you and her feel alot towards each other, then age shouldn't be a problem. if you're really only 19 then people should mind their own business. however, if she's a friend of the family and has been for a long time, then it should stop now or it will tear the family apart. you have to ask yourself if that's what you really want.

Answer 6

First, stop feeling so very guilty - it takes 2!  She is a grown woman who knew exactly what she was doing.  Lying about your age wasn't right, of course, overall it probably didn't make much of a difference, tho.  You cannot stop the rumor mill once it gets going.  It will die down on its own.    

You do need to talk to your family.  Sit down and tell your cousin exactly what you have told us.  This should not ruin their friendship, although it may be strained for awhile.

Otherwise, stay away when and if she comes around, don't contact her.  She has alot of things going on right now.  The one who will be hurt in the end is you.

Hopefully I have helped you some, good luck!

Answer 7

You're going to do nothing.  This was a make out session.  Not a life commitment.   She's a woman at a peak in her s*x drive.  She doesn't need a guy who can't support her and her kids.   You were a one night fling and you didn't even have s*x.   Let it go and learn something.  Good Luck  

Answer 8

Ok so u were messing with Stifler's mom, get over it.  people will always talk, that's life.  just ignore them

Answer 9

Haha, well the first thing you did wrong was tell her you were 22, but I'm sure that if you really do have a way with words, that wouldn't have changed anything. Next thing, I'm sure it was inevitable that with her sleeping in your room (with you, presumably) - it was only natural that something happened between the two of you. You can't change it now, all you can do is try to avoid any damage with family or friends.

You could insist that nothing happened, and maybe your "way with words" would help you once again.

Or you could come clean and tell everything that yes, you kissed, but that's it. They'd probably not take that very well, but it'd be the truth for the most part.

It really does all depend on how well you are with words and if you would be convincing enough to make everyone thing that nothing happened.

Answer 10

plz help me I have to keep my husband attracted on me:

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Answer 11

lol, I can't believe I'm gonna say this, but nice work! Getting an older girl... nice. lol. Well, just tell everyone you seduced her and it's all your fault. lol

Answer 12

For starters, don't do it again or she could go to prison for a long time. In cases like this (yours) the adult (over 21) is always thought to be the one at fault.  She should have known better and slept somewhere else.  You should tell your family that you didn't have s*x and that you told her you were 22.  That will take some of the blame and harsh words away from her but not all.  Her reputation is permanently ruined.  You both did something wrong.  Being drunk is no excuse but it sounds like at least one of you was.  it's time to apologize to her, your parents and your other family members.