I married my wife in the phils,and when she arrived in the uk pregnant by another man.what would you do?

Question

after our wedding in bohol,philippines i had to return to the uk,to prepare the paperwork for her visa,etc,and when she arrived in the uk six months later,she was 3 months pregnant by another man in the phils.

Answer 1

Put her back on the plane,simple

Answer 2

I would send her back to the other man and get divorced as soon as possible.  I can't believe she had the nerve to show up in that condition.  It sounds like she just used you to get out of the Phillipines.  You may be able to have the marriage annuled under these conditions.    Good luck!  

Answer 3

John, sorry to hear of such deception.  What she has done is only a marriage of convenience which is not legal in the UK, so ,,, turn her into Police and let them handle the " return to sender" item.  she can be sent back  on the next plane, just as fast as she got there. have the marriage annuled, do not do a divorce, it will cost you $$,  Divorce is terrible advice. by doing an annulment it is as if you were never married. She has proven to be deceitful in her actions, thats all it takes.

Answer 4

oppps ...sorry to hear that. better buy her a plane ticket pronto and send her back to the phil.

Answer 5

First and foremost, I am soooooo sorry...Next, kick the girl out and send her packing.  She cheated on you and had the b***s to come there without telling you...did she think that she has the chance to be with you after what she'd done?  If you do take her back, say goodbye to your pride, self-esteem, b****, and your future.  You have beautiful English girls in UK, why in the world were you looking for one out of the country?  UK is also a big melting pot, it's diverse...look around and see what you've been missing...put her in the plane asap and start your divorce procedures.  Hope this helps you...come on man and wake up!

Answer 6

i would Dump the unfaithful wife

Answer 7

I can see why people would go straight to stereotyping calling her a mail order bride, but this really could have happened to anybody. I would reconsider whether or not I need her in my life because it seems to me she's just using you for the visa, passport, whatever. The best thing to do would be to leave her because that's just a horrible thing to do. I can't even imagine how you felt/feel right now. If you stay with her, then you're going to end up raising a child that's not even yours. You'd have to be a good man to put up with that kind of drama. But it's understandable if you want to leave her because you can honestly find another woman. Just send her back to the Philippines ASAP and get your divorce on the way. All the luck to you.

Answer 8

That's why honor killings exist......

Seriously though, send her home and file for divorce, and make sure you get DNA proof that you are not the father IMMEDIATELY when the child is born. UK laws favor the mother overwhelmingly, and if you are slow, the ocurts may make you pay child support anyway.

Answer 9

Divorce her and send her and the baby back to the PI

Answer 10

Since you haven't sponsored her to live yet in UK, then you just purchase a one way flight ticket and send her back to the Phillipines. She can get a divorce from you and marry the father of her unborn child. That's it.

Answer 11

Drop her *** on the street.

Answer 12

That's what happens when you marry strange mail order brides from another country

Answer 13

Put her on the next plane back to the PI. Then, file for divorce. You owe her nothing and that's what you will have if you keep her. Someone worth nothing.

Answer 14

there is no question of what needs to be done. You can expect her to be funny, but the trouble otherwise is going to be horrendous.

You could end up losing ALOT, especially as it appears she isnt particularly scrupulous....

Call it a bad experience. Have a smile on your face as you buy the ticket. Savour the money spent and think of what its brought you.

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All the best

p.s under English law, if she gets her feet properly under the table you will end up paying for that childs support, which combined with other things will scupper you.

DON'T delay :}

Again, best of luck

Answer 15

Typical.  Sorry you got taken.  I would get the marriage annulled and her sorry butt back to the Phils.  Pitiful.