My fiance' proposed in November 2006... I was 19. We're waiting til June 2010 to get married cause Im in school and my aunt is paying for it, if I get married she wont pay for it anymore.
Anyway, I had a good friend all through middle school and high school. I always thought she'd be in my wedding without a doubt. However, after high school, she moved away to go to dental school and we just never really reconnected. We talked maybe a dozen times over AIM and hung out once over 2 years. In effort to rekindle the friendship, I asked her to be a bridesmaid in Feb of this year. I got a long, akward silence... and a "uh... sure, I guess". I had a feeling she just said yes because she felt pressured. Anyway, time went by and I didnt talk to her at all... and I find out from someone else that she is getting married! She is actually getting married tomorrow, and I just got a txt msg from her asking if I wanted to come. (B-List much?) I really have no desire to go, and I really dont think it's in either of our interests to have her in my wedding party anymore... we just completely grow apart, we dont talk, and when we do, its awkward. Am I supposed to go to her wedding? How (and when) do I tell her that I feel we have grown apart and don't want to stress her out with a wedding for someone that she rarely communicates with?
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