I messed up bad with my boyfriend please help me?

Question

Ok so I messed up BAD with my boyfriend of 4 months. He took constant abuse from me, not physical or mental but I constantly called him cheap when I was the one pinching pennies, my mom was constantly rude and embarassing to him, I was anti social to his family, I made his car break down (long story), made myself seem like the better person all cuz I lived in a "nice" are and he "didn't", I had a dog and nephew who he put up with that took a lot of his time up with me, and my dog was mean to his dog and so was I to his dog and meanwhile he was nice to my dog. He treated me like a princess when I was a witch. So guess what? He left. And I don't blame him and neither do all of you I bet. But he is the only man who really ever truly loved me and ever will. I am overweight and he still liked me. I was so mean to him it was so messed up. But he left me for good I am dying over here my heart is in a million pieces and only I am to blame. I told him I'm sorry but any advice 4 my broken <3?

Answer 1

Treat the next man better then you treated him. I wont, absolutely will NOT give you any advice on how to get him back. And i give great advice. But its one of those things when you learn. Your hurting and you should be. That&#039;s what you get and i&#039;m hard pressed to say anything nice to you. I will say that you will always love him and you will always long for him because you know in your heart that he was the first and true only. Bake in that while your wilth guys who treat you like c**p and call you fat and kick your dog and push your nephew down the stairs....bake in the fact that there was ONE GUY who would have never treated you that way and you treated him like hot garbage.. Bake in it.

Learn that people, all people of all shapes and sizes from all different backgrounds have feeling and they hurt when they&#039;re stepped on and they hurt worse when they&#039;re hurt by someone who says they cares about you. You are lucky to have met someone who cared for you and wanted nothing in return from you but you...

Sometimes Sorry Just dont and wont cut it.....

Hopefully you&#039;ll treat the next guy better....

Answer 2

Go to a mental health professional.  It sounds like you need to talk about and resolve a lot of issues.  You are so afraid of getting hurt, I guess, that you pushed him away first.  If not, you have a chemical imbalance that can and needs to be treated.  Good luck.

Answer 3

i thought i could help you but i don&#039;t think i can other then to tell you everything you put in your question you tell him and ask him to forgive you. men take a lot of mess for love im in a relationship and im taking my own share but when you feel like theirs no good coming out of it ,its done and sorry wont bring me back because we know what type of person you can be. plus you weren&#039;t the best looking and he still loved you and you crapped on him he might find someone better and why put up with you . but i don&#039;t know . i wish you luck and know you know what not to do in ya next relationship