I mest up bad with my girl and she might leave me after 2 years what should i do?

Question

well my gurl called me to tell me that she is goin to the track to jog and invited me ok so i went and while i was half way there she called me from home and told me she went already and i walked for no reason and i hung up on her.. its not the first time i hung up on her and this is what she sent to me in a E-mail. u relly made me mad wen u hung up the phone because i finished running before u got there to the track. and i dont have time that can be wasted. So i want u 2 think about that 4 a long time. which means dont talk 2 me because im getting tired of this every year u getting upset over stupidity. So i will hitcha back later wen i fill like i want 2 talk 2 people that hang up on me because my schedule is busy. and please dont call me cause i will be busy this whole weekend.

and i cant loose her my heart liturally stop for one tenth of a second what should i do its been 2 years since we first got together and it just cant end this way and we had plans to get married and have two children im afraid that might not happen cause of me someone please tell me what should i do

Answer 1

Give her flowers, take her out somewhere to make it up to her and tell her that you love her and don't want to loose her.

Answer 2

Simple, send a bunch of flowers to her place with a note on it saying sorry and nothing else, not even your name as she will know who they are from.

P.S. don't you deliver the flowers ok.

Answer 3

Tell, your girl to quit being so selfish.  If she invited you to go she should have waited for you.  You had a right to be angry and hang up on her.  She needs to get over it or you need to get a life and realize you don't deserve that kind of treatment.  Love isn't supposed to be hurtful or controlling.  

Answer 4

Do you actually want to live the rest of your life with someone that will get mad every time you take up for yourself or she doesn't hear exactly what she wants to hear? I think you need to drop this lady and find one that can keep her word. If she says she is going to be at a certain place and then doesn't do it, that is not only rude but is self absorbed and she doesn't care about your feelings at all. She isn't worth the time your heart stopped. Your better than that so start acting like it!

Answer 5

She sounds like she is the one with the problem.  I mean she wasted your time too- driving out there and all that.  If she's dating you 2 years and she can't find the time for you, I'd dump her.  She needs think about where you are coming from!  Your time is just as important as hers and I think you had a right to be mad.  You don't need her garbage!  You find somebody better that will actually take time to talk to you when you fight and that will invite you to stuff and wait on you.  She's being stupid... If you really want to keep that up then just try and talk to her.  But I wouldn't be letting her have all the power in the relationship.  Put your foot down and don't let her walk all over you.  Be a man about it!  I'll admit it, my bf has to put me in line sometimes so I think maybe you need to do the same.

Answer 6

If she is all woman than send her flowers, no its not a old fashion thing to do, when you send her the flowers send a note say,I'm sorry, miss you ,will be waiting for your call. love ....  and dont call her, let her cool off and everytime she looks at the flowers she'll most likely think of you, she will call you.  Good LUck April

Answer 7

Well, first of all, put yourself in her shoes-- would you be angry if she hung up on you??  That WAS very rude and it does tend to really irritate us women about as fast as anything you guys can do!!

And, you admit that you have done this several times before, too!!

So, what you need to do now, and ASAP, is to convince her that you are AWARE of this problem of yours, and that you promise to work on doing better, and stop hanging up on her when you get upset about something, then tell her how very much you love her, how you can't live without her, how afraid you are of losing her over your stupidity, ect., bring on the flowers, gifts, ect., and maybe she will give you one more chance!!

Remind her that you are just a man and that you need her to guide you and keep you on your toes always!(lol! That should be good for something, huh??)

Good luck to you!!

Answer 8

You and your girl have to develop your relationship with one thing in mind, mutual respect. Are you best friends. If you don't treat each other as best friends, besides being lovers, and companions, than your relationship will eventually fail. I have known people that treat their best friends with more respect than their wives, and later wonder why their marriage  didn't work out. Two people regardless of gender must have mutual respect, and love.

Answer 9

i think what you guys planned for your future is the sweetest and cutest thing and she wants you to think about it as if you were in her shoes and you were going to run track and she got there and called you to tell you she was there and you left already and she hung up on you and she did that every year so she just want's to let you know that she doesn't like you getting mad at her bescause she has a busy schedule so just give her some time to think and when you to talk again when she says something to you like i'm going to the park will you meet me there and you agreed but when u got there she was gone and then she called you to tell you and you were angry just tell her um can you clear your schrdule when you get a chance because i miss spending time with you or tell her i think we need some time to hang out and i miss you because if you keep hanging up then your gonna lose your dream and if you really love think about what i'm saying the next time something bad happens and please come to me anytime you need advice i love giving advice and good luck!

Answer 10

Girls hate to be hung up on. It hurts them and especially if its something in which they can not help.  I highly doubt it was her fault she already ran her race. I am sure she was thinking about you and how your on your way there.  You hanging up on her probably made it feel like it was her fault.  But then again she should be a little bit more considerate.  Just send her a note saying sorry, that you miss her, that you love her.  send some chocolate or some flowers. something to make her know you care.

Answer 11

It sounds like you're very immature to hang up on her for something so petty.

I don't think you should get married.