I met a girl on the 8th day of school and she's been sorta clinging onto me and i think she wants to be my?

Question

friend but I don't wanna be friends with her. I feel like telling her that, but I really don't wanna hurt her feelings, otherwise I'll feel sorta guilty. She seems sorta fragile. What should I do?

Answer 1

i make you a good friend

Answer 2

actually you should talk to her about your doubt because she may be feeling you as hers best friend

Answer 3

Tell her you need some advice...tell her there is this person that you met, and she's really nice, but you don't want to hang out with them any more, but you don't want to hurt their feelings. Say its kind of like ice cream....strawberry (or any flavor) is good and vanilla is good, but you're in the mood for Rocky Road, and you don't have room to have every kind. There is nothing wrong with strawberry or vanilla, but that's not what you want right now, and you don't have room for it...Ask her how she would tell someone that...listen to what she says, then say you have to admit the truth....she's like the strawberry ice cream. It's not really personal, she's a nice person and all, but you just don't have room for her in your life right now. Restate that she is a good person, and anyone would be lucky to be friends with her, but you'd rather not hang out with her anymore, and you're sorry if that hurts her feelings. Tell her you wish her the best, but you have to be honest....I  know you are afraid of hurting her feelings or feeling guilty that you don't want to be around her, but you will just stress yourself out worrying if you don't say something, and you won't be doing her any favors by letting her hang around and not really caring about her...she needs to move on and build relationships with other people, but honestly, she will probably feel a bit rejected. You can't base your life on how other people are going to react, though. As long as you are kind and considerate, you shouldn't feel guilty about being honest with your feelings. She will eventually move on and make new friends; maybe you can introduce her to someone...hope it works outs for you!

Answer 4

This is also happen to me right now..!!

What I do is ignore and avoid to talk and meet him..

And It work totally :) ..

P/S - Don't tell her you don't want to be her friend..

Answer 5

ive had that before. lol but lucky me i moved out of that school. heres somthing thatll cheer u up.

Chef's dad: Say, would you crackers like to hear about the time we saw the Loch Ness monster?

Stan: No, that's okay.

Chef's dad: Ooh, it must've been about seven, eight years ago. Me and the little lady was out on this boat, you see, all alone at night, when all of a sudden this huge creature, this giant crustacean from the paleolithic era, comes out of the water.

Chef's mom: We was so scared, Lord have mercy, I jumped up in the boat and I said "Thomas, what on earth is that creature?!"

Thomas: It stood above us looking down with these big red eyes,-

Chef's mom: Oh, it was so scary!

Thomas: -and I yelled. I said, "What do you want from us, monster?!" And the monster bent down and said, "…Uh I need about tree-fitty."

Kyle: What's tree-fitty?

Thomas: Three dollars and fifty cents.

Chef's mom: Tree-fitty.

Stan: He wanted money?

Thomas: That's right. I said "I ain't giving you no tree-fitty you goddamn Loch Ness monster! Get your own goddamn money!"

Chef's mom: I gave him a dollar.

Thomas: She gave him a dollar.

Chef's mom: I thought he'd go away if I gave him a dollar.

Thomas: Well of course he's not gonna go away, Nellie! You gave him a dollar, he's gonna assume you got more!

Thomas: I said, "Dammit monster! Get off my lawn! I ain't giving you no tree-fitty!" It said, "how about just two-fitty?" I said, "Oh, now it's only two-fitty!! What?! Is there a sale on Loch Ness munchies or something?!"

Nellie: Lord, he was angry.

Thomas: d**n right, I was angry!

Nellie: Not you, the monster. He was about to kick your ***.

Thomas: Aah, shut your mouth, woman!

Answer 6

Avoid her, but that would be mean,