I met a guy in a wedding ceremony.

Question

i attended as wedding and there i met a young man who first aproach to me was "who is your husband?" and i answered him that i am not married. we exchange our mobile numbers and we have been communicating on phone and the content of his discussions whenever he calls tells that he is out for something serious (marriage). but i am confused, do i go ahead and ask him of his plans towards me.

Answer 1

You haven't even dated this guy...and he wants to marry you?

Answer 2

You should wait until you get to know him, and know him well. This has happened to me a few times and I view this as a red flag.

Answer 3

hE MAY BE READY TO SETTLE DOWN AND BEING AT A WEDDING ONLY FURTHER CONFIRMED THAT BUT HAVING JUST MET HE SHOULD BE TALKING ABOUT MARRIAGE SO MUCH!

oops sorry about the caps!

Answer 4

He's just saying that he would like to settle down, i dont think aimed at you but if he likes you he wants you to know that thats what he wants.

Answer 5

ok is this guy just letting you know he wants a serious relationship, marriage and kids SOMEDAY if he is then thats great at least hes being honest and i think maybe you should keep seeing him and get to know him more and then talk more about it later, but if hes already planning his wedding and with you and all that already then i say run for the hills, he's either playin you or he has issues either way get out, unless you really like him and wanna keep seeing him then i say thats up to you but good luck!!

Answer 6

Oh boy!  That last time I heard that one, the guy was trying to get in the girl's pants.  Did you see the movie Wedding Crashers?  Watch it.  That's probably where he got the idea.

Answer 7

Sounds like a line hes used more than once. If you like him get to know him, but its kinda a off putting that hes already talking about marriage in general or specifically about you. You should try getting to know him before anything and right now, i don't think he could give you an honest answer about his "plans towards you" he doesn't know you well enough to make that decision yet. I say take your time and see where it goes but don't go to fast you don't want it to be a rushed thing to hurry up and settle down. Good luck!!

P.s. You also don't want to get your hopes up in thinking WOW this guy really fell for me and BAM! next thing u know its over and you're left heart broken

Answer 8

no tell him what you want this way if you both want the same thing and are both being honest then it will move forward - a proceed to the next step