I met a guy last year and we became just buddies for about five months and I fell for him slowly but surely...

Question

... When I told him he was sweet but wasn't interested and it got complicated so we severed our friendship after a few very heated arguments that were all due to mixed messages.

It was very, very hurtful and on a few occasions over the past twelve months I have sent emails saying how much I miss him with no response whatsoever so I tried to let it go but I can't stop thinking about him.

Last week I got tipsy at a friends birthday party in a bar and he walked in and we nodded politely to each other and stayed well clear of each other too. We can't talk. I think he really hates me because we said some pretty nasty things to each other last year when our friendship ended.

When I got home that night I text'd him: "I miss you so much that I can't stand it".

I had no response - I hear through the grapevine that he has someone now.

I feel like an idiot sending him the text. What if I run into him again?

I feel like such a loser: what to do? How do I handle this?

Answer 1

You did something a bit silly while tipsy - honestly I'm sure other people have texted WAY more embarrassing things in the same situation.

It's up to you how to handle it, but I would just act like it never happened if I ran into him again, unless he brought it up - and I'm pretty sure he won't.