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I met this really nice waitress but when I was at the restaurant, I wasn't feeling well.....

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We made small talk and I knew without a doubt that we have that rare and very special chemistry but I had been sick all week and that was my first time out after being sick and I just didn't have myself together. What should I do?

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  1. when you feel better, go back in the restaurant and sit with her in a table, tell her how you feel. if you cant do that, try getting her number and talk to her on the phone.

    and goodluck dude :)  


  2. ahhh, young love...

  3. go there again..

  4. Waitresses are very flirtatious. She just knows how to get tips from guys. Don't fall in love and start going after her.

  5. Visit the restaurant again, and talk to her next time.

  6. This is a dating question not a dining question. Think about what you say to any woman you like and say that. Ask her if she'd like to meet you after work sometime.  

  7. You could pay another visit to the restaurant, but just be careful you are not mistaking 'chemistry' with plain old good customer relations.

  8. I think u should go again n ask her out. its the only way u will know if is chemistry or just a nice waitress

  9. Part of waiting tables is playing up to customers, and this quite often involves innocent flirtation, especially if the person is there alone, or an obvious "extra" at a table of friends.  

    This isn't to say that she isn't interested in you, but to caution you against thinking some small amount of flirtation is a bona fide interest when it could just be her schmoozing for tips.

    If you think there's a real interest there, ask her if she'd like to meet you after her shift at a nearby coffee shop or something.  If you're not sure if it's a genuine interest, you can always try stepping up the game a bit by giving her direct compliments, like telling her that she's interesting.  

  10. go back to the restaeraunt again when she is working and ask to be she seated where she serves. talk to her soem more and ask her out on a date. best of luck to you =]

  11. Men have these fantasies when women are kind to them....They think just because we talk nice to them, we want them as bad as they want us..  You can try it but I think it's just one of those male fantasies.  

  12. Female servers don't like it when a guy that is a customer at her place of work starts hitting on her at work.  Don't try to give her your number on a napkin either.  

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