I might be, and if I am, my parents will kill me.?

Question

My bf and I think I might be pregnant, and I honestly hope I am, just to get out of the house. My parents, however would kil me (they think I'm still a virgin). I know, I'm 15, and shouldn't even be THINKING about this, but I am. I want to have and keep the child - if there is one - but I shudder to think what my parents would do to it/me. I'm about to go away to Band Camp, and my period isn't for another three weeks. My bf is going to get me an hpt, but what should I do if I'm pregnant? He says I can live with him, but we wouldn't be able to afford it. I might be able to live with my brother and Step-sister, but I don't know if they can afford it, or would even except me anyway. What should I do?

Answer 1

first off you should be more carful (and smarter) im glad you want to keep the baby. but you will definatly need to tell your parents. maybe they will be ok....

good luck

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Answer 2

Honestly, the best thing to do is, if you are pregnant, to just tell your parents... They can't kill you because you are their daughter and they would never want to harm you... But, they might, however, be very upset... Especially if they think that you are still a virgin... but, if you DONT tell them then they will be more upset because if you are pregnant you really can't hide it after a while...  So yea, just talk to them and maybe they can help you figure out something... I'm sure they would be willing to help you.. If you just talk and explain everything to them... And tell them that the father wants to help and everything... Best of luck :)

Hope I helped ^^

Answer 3

You should hope and pray to God your not pregnant. You are to young. Become an adult get married then have a baby. Enjoy life as a teen and don't try to grow up so fast..

Answer 4

you're sooo stupid!!

you're practically throwing ur life away, u wont go to collage, ur parents will have to babysit the kid, u dont know where ur gonna live?

you're only 15 is living w/ ur 'rents that bad? i know ur a teenager and they dont get it, but still, they love u

Answer 5

Why is your name "Kindra's Momma"?  That would tell me you have a child already...I'm confused?

Answer 6

Well, first of all your parents are not going to kill you.  They might be extremely disappointed, but they are NOT going to kill you.

Second, there is no need to stress over the situation until you take a test and find out.

Third, your being pregnant does not mean you are going to be able to move outside of your house.  You are still a minor, and unless your parents consent to your moving out you will not be able to do so.

And, last, a baby might seem appealing but I would suggest you reconsider and wait, if you are not already pregnant.  You can not change your mind later.  Babies are a lot of fun, yes, but they are a lot more work.  Their needs have to be put ahead of everyones, including your own.  If you can not fully support yourself AND the baby, you should not have one.  You should not have to rely on living with this person or that person.

What should you do?  Take a test.  If you are pregnant, talk with your parents.  I promise they are not going to kill you.  I do not recommend abortion, and if you want to keep the baby then it is unlikely you are going to decide on adoption so you need to get a part time job, continue going to school, and take parenting classes.  You need to do absolutely everything you can do to help your parents (i.e. housework, etc.) because they are going to be helping you more than you know (babies are expensive!).

If you are not pregnant, again-I suggest you wait.  I wish I could invite all of these teenagers that want babies to my home to see what it is like-I have three well behaved children and I get exhausted, even WITH the support of a husband.  It would be even worse if I was worried about finishing my education, paying bills, etc.

I do wish you the best, honey.

EDITED TO ADD: You mention your period being due in three weeks.  If you have not already missed a period, chances are you are not pregnant.  When your period starts, ovulation occurs about two weeks later.  Two weeks after that, if your period does not show, is generally when most women learn they are pregnant.  If your period is still three weeks away, you have most likely not reached the fertile point of your cycle yet.  There are exceptions to every rule, however.

Also, I know you might think you love your boyfriend and will be together forever-most all of us ladies here can probably tell you that we felt the same way about someone at 15.  I bet most of us can also say that we are NOT with that person today, and thankful that it is so.  Having a baby with someone makes them a part of your life forever.  You can not easily end a relationship with them.

Answer 7

Don't do anything until you are sure. No point in worrying your parents unless you really are pregnant.

I'm 16 and I had to tell my parents I was pregnant. It was the hardest thing I ever told them. If you are pregnant, you can't keep it a secret for long. Parents can surprise you. They will be shocked, but will most likely want you to stay.

Good luck

Answer 8

What is so bad about living at home that you want to ruin your life and have a kid at 15? You're just a kid yourself pretty much.

Take a pregnancy test, find out for sure, then go from there.

Answer 9

abortion with out parents knowing

Answer 10

well, consider abortion *hippie has a heartattack* if its that much of an issue for you. im 15 and i know if i was in your position, i would NOT be able to take care of a baby (as much as i want one) but remember- you can get pregnant again or have a baby when your really ready for it- financially and maybe have a husband but your parents are always gonna be your parents. dont ffuckk up yalls realationship over your mistake- later you will regret it. ok think about this- you ARE pregnant, you KEEP the baby, and your 21 birthday, FINALLY able to LEGALLY drink (wow, weve been waiting on that one), all of your friends are going out to the clubs, and you have a 6 YEAROLD KID AT HOME. do you really wanna do that? have your three year old attend you HIGHSCHOOL graduation?? i know i may not be helping you, but im trying to put this in my prospective, bc i know i could easily get pregnant, and i dont want any of that.

Answer 11

Ok if your period isnt due for another 3 weeks then you wont be able to know if you are pregnant (and you probably havent ovulated yet). PLEASE listen to me, it is extremely difficult to have a baby at a young age, I am talking from experience and I was 20 when I had mine. Don't think things will be different for you, they wont, they will be even harder. You cannot earn enough money for a baby, neither can your boyfriend, he is 90% likely to leave you, if not when you are pregnant, within a year of the baby's birth, why because he is young and cant handle it and your relationship will not be long enough or mature enough to live through it. You will be alone, your baby will not have a dad in it's life, you will be struggling and that is not a good life for a kid. Please dont be so stupid, its selfish, a HUMAN BEING is being produced from this, not just something thats going to get you away from your parents, consider the life of your potential child and how they would be better off if you wait until you are an adult and in a stable and long-term relationship. I feel so sad reading this teen pregnancy stuff because its just ridiculous and a crappy situation for everyone involved, dont do this on purpose.

Answer 12

Just tell them your old enoght to "do it" your old enough to take it.

Answer 13

go and find otu!

Answer 14

HAHA!  Sucks to be you.

*enjoys life without any life changing decisions*

Answer 15

well at least you know you screwed up big time, most girls think "oh im pregnant oh yay!" when they are under 18, foolish, foolish, foolish.

btw, go get a test, because you might be freaking out over nothing

if you ARE, everyone thinks abortion is wrong, but if you dont want to have a child with YOUR body, it is perfectly ok. you have a right over your body! Nobody can force you to have a child. and who knows, maybe it would have had a bad life! Consider that.

Answer 16

Take a pregnancy test. If the results are  negative then ok. But if the results are positve tell your parents and you bf parents and the other adults will see what goes on from there.

Question:How old is your Boyfriend

Answer 17

first off you should be more carful but you will  need to tell your parents. take the test first and ur 15 u not sopposed to have s*x

Answer 18

sounds like ur not really ready to have a kid even if u do want one