I might be bisexual..but i dont want to date girls?

Question

Okay well i have always dated boy and had wonderful relationships with them, but lately ive learned to accept that i might have sexual feelings for both sexes because L*****n p**n and what not turns me on. I dont know if i could ever go through with an actual L*****n s*x situation though, or want to pursue one. Also in life i think its important not to judge someone by their s*x organs but by their character as a person. But I just dont see myself dating a girl in the future..so does this make me bisexual? i just almost DONT want to. I think i go better with guys...

are there any other bisexuals out there who recognize they have an attraction to both but only act on one?

Answer 1

Don't rationalize and don't try to force one orientation on yourself.  Keep an open mind and go with the flow, if things happen they happen, if they don't they don't.  Just be yourself, and don't let other people dictate to you (like I'm doing now) what you should conform to.

Answer 2

It is possible you're a heterosexual woman who appreciates women, and finds them attractive on a fantasy level, but doesn't actually want to engage in a relationship (sexual or emotional) with other women. There are lots of women out there like that, and it doesn't necessarily make them bisexual. Usually bisexual people find men and women attractive, but want to engage in a relationship with either of them. It is possible to be straight and still acknowledge that something like L*****n p**n can arouse you. There are tons of women who are into g*y p**n but aren't g*y men.

   That said, you could be bisexual because you have an attraction on some level. You may have to actually date a girl to find out. Theorizing is fine, but you may just never know until you actually try. No pressure, though, and any way you identify is fine.  

Answer 3

Most Bisexuals, have a preference.

Answer 4

Just because you feel an attraction doesn't mean you have to act on it.  If you don't want to date girls, then don't, what's the problem?  

Answer 5

we I'm bi and honestly that's how it started with me I felt sexual feelings about men but now I could easily fall in love with a man and so much that I wouldsee myself better in a relationship with a man but prefer to have s*x with women

Answer 6

Yeah, although as of right now I've only ever had relationships with a boy. I'm pretty sure that even though the idea of boys [mostly with other boys, I don't know] appeals to me, actually being with them does not satisfy me. At all. The idea of a relationship with a girl is just, you know, far superior. Hoping I will be able to test this theory soon. But hey, we're opposites, huzzah!