I might be leaving state and my girlfriend and I dont know what to do its my choice.?

Question

I think i might be in love with my girlfriend and i dont know if she feels the same, i want to stay with her, but if i stay and we break up i will feel horrible that i missed the oppurtunity of a lifetime should i go and try long distance? i get to come back for fall spring winter and summe break and my birthday. WHAT DO I DO? PLEASE HELP ME!

Answer 1

I had a 2 year long distance relationship and now we are together very happy. If is real love then is should last.

Answer 2

depends why you are moving

if its for college

then go for it

but if you don't know if she feels the same way

then talk to her

see where you two stand

if its like study abroad program

and you really feel that way about her then you guys should really talk

Answer 3

Your future is very important.   College very important!

No job no money, crappy future.

   Talk to your girl friend. tell her your concerns.  Tell her you really care about her and don't want to lose her, and if she feels the same she will wait for you or go with you.  If she wants to have a decent future with you, she has to let you go to school.

Answer 4

I think you are leaning more to wanting to go to school b/c it is a chance of a lifetime even though you love your girlfriend very much.  As you pointed out, you can come back during holidays and see her.  She may not wait for you after you go, but you are not sure whether the relationship will last and are not sure she is in love with you, so you must take this chance and go to school.  You might regret it if you don't.

Answer 5

Ask her how she feels and then decide. Trust me I've talked to many people about this subject and in many cases they worked out good either way. Also, if she doesn't like you, find a girl where you are going. ;)

Answer 6

Leave her, do whatever it is you need to do.  Sounds like you've never left home before so why on earth would you stay somewhere over a g/f?