I might be... pregnant??

Question

im 13 and i had s*x (protected, of course) the first time a couple weeks ago, and im late. but first off, my boyfriend put the condom on weird so he flipped it around. im afraid that if there were stuff on the side he turned out, it might have gotten in me (i hope you understand what i mean) and the main problem is that im a week or two late as of my recent schedule, but before, it came around every three months for me. and one other thing is even before i was active i dealt with nausea and lightheadedness. i took a test, but do to my off schedule, it might not be accurate. i have no way to go to the doctor in secrecy. so anything you can provide to help i will gladly welcome.

Answer 1

wow ur 13

no...just no

im 13 and thers no way i would ever think about even doing that  

Answer 2

you shld see the doctor be4 it gets late...tc

Answer 3

your probably not pregnant , take a test if your worried but its normal at your age not to be regular

kudos for using protecting but if you put it on wrong don't try flipping it over , just use a new one.

better care next time.

Answer 4

The best thing to do would be to wait, and take a test.

The likelyhood is slim, but there are chances.

You should keep taking tests if your period is irregular-don't OVERDO tests, but you just want to make sure.

And try as hard as you can to get to some clinic, maybe Planned Parenthood.

Good luck, best wishes!

Answer 5

Talk to your grandma. She will not tell your parents.

Answer 6

I'll tell you two things. First, you're only 13 and your hormones are still adjusting and going crazy coz of your period. When I was younger I used to have crazy cycles as well. And second, women after their first intercourse usually doesn't have their period as expected, even though they are not pregnant. There's a reason for that and I can't really explain it in simpler terms... but if you want to, you can look it up in OBGYN books.

So, don't fret about it. You'll get your period soon. If not, smack your boyfriend in the face and gift him a huge box of condoms. Sorry to offend you but I don't think he's smart enough to know what a condom is for and how to use it. Try getting pregancy test kits too.  

Answer 7

I was going to say why did you have s*x at that age ... but i cant because i am pregnant and im only 16!!

You need to take a pregnancy test. If your boyfriend turn the condom inside out then it is possible that the condom could have had "stuff" on.

You need to see a doctor - if you cant ask your parents then ask a relative that you really trust.

Hope this helps and Good luck!! =)

Answer 8

What your boyfriend did was seriously stupid.

I mean, if you think you are old enough to have s*x, then don't you think you should know that you don't use condoms twice?

You need to take a few more tests.

And I know you don't want to go to a doctor. You at least need to see if there is a planned parenthood in your area.

You need to tell someone, if you are pregnant, your parents will notice, and they will be seriously upset.

And then dump your boyfriend.

13 is way to young to be having s*x anyway..

Answer 9

give yourself another week and then do a test again. worrying will delay your periods further. you can go to a family planning clinic and all will be confidential. if your test is negative and your are still going to be sexually active, go on the pill

Answer 10

Hi, since your periods are irreregular, the chances of getting preg is very slim.What ever happend is happend ...If you have doubts that you may concieve, i would suggest you to take food which generates heat in the body so that you may get your period. You may try having on of the following items on a daily basis...

Chocolates, Pappaya, Dates...Try to eat some quantities on a daily basis..you will get your period soon...

Answer 11

You don't get a period while you're pregnant, so you need to take a test even though you're 'off schedule.' Try to find someone to take you to Planned Parenthood, they'll help you out.

Good luck!

Answer 12

First of all, what your boyfriend did with the condom was stupid.  He should have just gotten another one.  You should never turn it the other way.  13 is too young to be having s*x as well.  But since you already did, its too late.  Anyway.  I would wait one more week and test, and see what that says.  But without going to a doctor, you won't ever be completely sure until a few months from now (lol).

Answer 13

What your bf did was very stupid.. I don't even understand how can you date a guy that doesn't even know how to use a condom.. You both don't know anything why would you have s*x?