I miss grandad,what can I do?

Question

he passed away today...i was crying hard.he used to call me an angel that's sent down from heaven.i miss him.it is so different with out him.

he told me i got my own dreams.that i can not depend on any one.he called me the great one.i missed the way he smile.really i do.missed the way we both use to day dream together...how can i ever be smiling again?

note to granddaddy:granddaddy,i miss you so much.how i wish you can come back.i will always love you,and you will always be with me.

Answer 1

When my grandparents past away, I wrote them a very special letter, only for them, and I put it in their casket with them. Ask your parents if thats ok for you to do. It should make you feel better knowing they having something from you resting with them.

I keep pictures up and look at them often and tell them I love them.  Also, when I pray, I talk to my grandparents alot.....but I know that no matter what they hear me and see me everyday.  Just like your grandad does now.... He is your special guardian angel. He can still hear you and see you, you just can't see or hear him - but have peace in the fact that he can still hear and see you. You can talk to him and he will listen... When you tell him you love him, he can hear you....

You will smile again someday, let this be a celebration of his life...celebrate his long life and all he has done in his life.  Smile, knowing he got to live a long life. Smile, knowing he is at peace, feeling no pain, and can always be with you.

Take Care

Answer 2

so sorry, this is always going to be hard, not much you can do other than let time heal your pain, but perhaps you could write him a letter? draw something, music, collage whatever your into it can be help, i would recommend writing down everything your feeling, and do what ever you want with it afterwards, or find somewhere to be where you feel close to him, perhaps somewhere you and him would go? good luck x

Answer 3

sweetheart, i am so sorry for your loss, you will never get over your lost. time will help ease your pain. i have a remarkable 7 year old grand daughter, when i lost my mom a few years back and had what i called "my mom moments" (lots and lots of crying) my grand daughter would walk up to me and say "are you missing granny" i would say "yes" she would look at me and say "list to you heart and you can hear her, and when you see the butter flies this summer it will be her" (my grand child thinks my mom comes back as butter flies) now i can sit and think about this and smile. Time will help ease your pain. Good luck sweetheart.

Answer 4

I am so sorry to hear about your grandpa.  I have lost all of my grandparents as well.

I would tell you to just press on.  The future can still be bright and prosperous, if you look toward the future, off with the old, on with the new.  You can take everything your grandpa told you and use it for good.  You can use his advice to become a great lady.  Don't let everything he lived for die with him.  You, along with family and friends can carry with you what he stood for.  Stay close with family during this time, and don't let your connections be broken.

You can and will get through this.

Answer 5

I send you love and sympathy sweetie, i too lost my grandad recently and it is the hardest thing to cope with (death of someone so close to us) I cant give you any tips on how to cope, as i am struggling with it myself.. If you ever want to have a rage at someone or anything then get in touch. xx

Answer 6

I'm so sorry for your loss :( for now remember all the good times you had with him and always keep in mind that he loved you and wouldn't want you to be sad..

maybe talk to your friends about it and ask them to spend some time with you and go out or something so that you don't have to think about the loss all the time..

take care!

Answer 7

Grief is an extremely difficult thing.  I lost my Dad on June 3.  Grief takes time and you need to work your way through it.  I know it seems impossible right now since this just occurred.  You may want to talk to your clergy person, a trusted friend, your parents or whoever you feel comfortable with.  Yes, it will take time and it is something you must go through, not around it.  Healing occurs when you confront the situation and let your feelings be your feelings.  There are several steps of grief  - Elizabeth Kubler Ross - was an expert on the subject.  You can find many resources concerning grief on the internet as well.  Remember the good times and try to keep them close to you.  Best wishes and my sincere sorry for your loss.