I miss her, but i shouldnt... should i?

Question

This one girl i work with recently left for college. I had a mad crush on her and told her everything. I told her i loved her and all i wanted was a chance to go out with her. She is currently seeing this other guy right now but it is going to be a long distance relationship b/c they are about 4 hours apart. She is my best friend and i really miss her... i have cried b/c i couldnt get together with her. She basically chose soem other guy over me, so why do i feel like this. How can i get over her.. im going to school in a few days what can i do.

Answer 1

cry it out.....thats the only way man!!!

try to find someone else....you know some one more sincere! thers always someone waiting for you...everything happens for something better!

Answer 2

dunno.

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Answer 3

throw yourself into life and don't reminisce until you've moved on to someone else. :(

Answer 4

join allot of clubs at school so you can stay busy and won't be sitting around thinking about her all day. Try to meet new girls also, there are loads of girls out there in the world. Some will come and some will go. Try not to let yourself get to deep with the girl though, because if you do it will make it even harder for you if it doesn't work out. Keep an open mind.

Good luck!

xoxo-the luv guru

Answer 5

First off.. I do not like the people who say "I don't know." and then are like "Answer mine please." It's like they expect you to answer theres when they are being a complete jerk to you.

Anyways, Of course it's okay to miss her. I think this was your first true love. I've been through that. It's going to be hard to get over her. The pain never really goes away.

Answer 6

you cant get over someone easily. i went through something similar but i was dating a girl, liked another (i told her i did and she said she liked me too) but then she transfered to a different school and got a boyfriend and even though i had a girlfriend i still missed her a lot. i talk to her a lot still! you just have to ask yourself this question... are you happier having her, or are you happy that she is happy even if it means she is with someone else? if you really love her you'll be ok with whatever as long as she's happy!

Answer 7

to get over her, i think you should stop seeing her. if you stop hanging out with her & talking to her, it'll be much easier to forget about her.

since school's starting in a few days for you, you'll get the chance to meet lots of new girls. maybe hang out with some of your other girl friends and your guy friends.definitely meet new people. Once you meet someone new, you'll completely forget about her.

just don't think of her, and don't think of things that remind you of her.

occupy yourself and DEFINITELY don't hang out with her.

:) hope i helped

Answer 8

wow you sound just like a kid i know..

Answer 9

in order to be in a relationship, BOTH PEOPLE (NOT JUST ONE) has to be committed and want to put an equal amount of effort into it. if not, it's unfair to one of the people (in this case, YOU). if she's seeing another guy, i know its hard, but quit it! dont cry over a girl who's not interested in you. there's a quote usually for girls but it can apply in ur situation. "no man is worth your tears and the one who is would never make u cry." thats so true. dont cry over this girl. it seems like u deserve so much better than this. it sounds so cliche but there are more fish in the sea. sometimes we all ask ourselves if there's so many fish in the sea why havent i met the one? well give it time! your "fish" might be in the other side of the ocean, swimming to find you, yet your trying to catch a fish that's already hooked onto someone else's rod. wait for your fish to come. i promise you, it'll be all worth it in the end. i wish you the best and have faith that a good guy like you with find your love.

Answer 10

dude this same thing happend to me..all i did was just wait to get over her..try finding someone else

Answer 11

Look at other girl you know, get a girlfriend, and realise that this girl isn t right for you, you have to get better than her,

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