I miss him..?

Question

I was seeing a guy for 1 month. We knew each other before but we never went out around that time then we ran into each other were just hanging out and getting to know each other. I was getting attached to him. I always felt excited about seeing him and I always got butterflies.

Anyways, when we were hanging out he was like,” you know I’m married right”? I was so disappointed but he still wanted to stay friends and hang out.

I know that it’s not a good idea to still seeing him so I haven’t visited him in 10 days and I miss him terribly. The reason why I can’t be friends with him is I might likely throw myself at him since I fancy him. I had an urge to see him today but I held back. I want to see him so badly.

Have you ever been in this situation before?

Did you stick around?

Answer 1

If you don't think that just being friends will be enough for you (even though HE thinks he can handle it), then I agree that you need to stop seeing him unless you're in a group situation.  I know it sucks now, but you'll get over him eventually, hon!

(I have to admit - I had a bit of a laugh that you posted this in the WEDDINGS section...a bunch of women preparing to start their marriages are probably not going to be too sympathetic to your situation since we don't want to be on the other side of it!!)

Answer 2

He's married. Respect his wife and leave him alone. Never contact him again. Why be with a man who is a cheater? Of course, he will do the same to you.

Answer 3

I feel so bad for you! Though I think you should not see him anymore because if you are that love crazy over him things will get out of hand and in a big mess. Again I feel so sorry for your situation :(

Answer 4

He is married back off. It is not fair for his wife if you throw yourself at him no matter how much you "fancy him". It was not fair for him to lead you on but now you have to say away from him and let him be with his wife. Do not be the "other" women. We as women should not do that to each other.

Answer 5

Girl, you already know he can't keep it in his pants. Unless you  like the torture, throw this one back  in for some other sucker. Don't let some *dude* add you to the tally of others he's had. Give yourself to a guy who is worthy.

Answer 6

My BEST friend is in this situation right now... she just started dating him.  It's such a bad idea!!  PLEASE, go out and read the book "He's Just Not That Into You".  You will just get hurt!!

Answer 7

Its okay to be friends. Closer than that and its beyond not okay.

Don't make any advances.

And, obviously since you "fancy him" and think you'll throw yourself at him, its not fair to him to put him in that situation. Don't do it.

Find another guy with similar personality attributes. Maybe you can find that you can like another guy and feel the same way about a guy....just make sure he's single.

Answer 8

um well just hang out with him as a friend and bring along a guy friend with u when u hang out