I miss italy and im so bored back here in the states?

Question

My bf doesnt want me to go back and yes i love him and he loves me so breaking up isnt an option. He claimed to get me in trouble somehow if i went back. Do you think he really would or is it talk? Hes a taurus and been w/him 5 yrs.

also if your in italy please tell me what you did and saw today. thank you

Answer 1

It's not because he's Taurus, it's because he's a little jealous and possessive, but actually he's not so wrong, because he may know that Italian guys are latin lovers, and they wouldn't miss the chance to try to get laid. But your life is just yours, you decide what's best for you - love or Italy? Here in Forlì (near the Adriatic Sea) it's so damned hot, humid, and everybody is at the seaside but me, because my girlfriend's feeling sick. Thus, the best we can take is a room with the A/C or even a fan, because there's not even wind to sweep the humidity away. Hope tomorrow it'll rain, as we expect.

Answer 2

Nice boyfriend, threatens you if you leave to go where you love. I don't really see it getting much better for you. Sorry.

Answer 3

Dump the loser, go home, and report the threat to the Carabinieri near your home.  They have a one size (9mm) solution for every problem!

Answer 4

If your boyfriend loved you, there shouldn't be any threats, especially ones involving you "getting trouble."  You know him better than us, so we really can't answer than question.  Mostly, it's just a threat because I doubt he'd risk being away from you for some time.  

I know it might be boring in the U.S., but that is really on you.  You should find activities to do.  It also takes time to open up, and get used to a totally new country.  Try all experiences from food, music, museums, historical sites, clubs, and people.  Be open-minded and it might rub off on you.

Good luck!

Answer 5

well if your boyfriend really loves you he wouldn't say those things..if your really unhappy where you are then go back!..i'm not in italy but i'm half italian and love italy soooo much..and if it were me i'd much rather go back..i hope it all turns out for the best..good luck!...ciao:)

Answer 6

it happened equally to me and my friends when we come back from NY to italy, we are italians and we were sooooo bored of coming back here. we didn't understand why the americans on our flight, were so excited to come in Italy.. we were so sad.

Maybe because "travel life" is always better than "real life day by day".

i' m in Italy, and today i do study for university exams, and later im going out, maybe near the sea. Nothing special, as you can see.

Come back here... if he loves you, he could be bored with you, but just for few days. you gotta do your life and do what you want.

Answer 7

I doubt he would, but maybe you should find something to busy yourself with back here in the US so you won't be so bored.