I miss my best friend.. but here is the problem..?

Question

This takes me 1 year and 8 months back..

I have a really good friend of mine..

But then, keeping in touch with him is so difficult because both of us are really shy person and our class is far away from each other...

We used to share our moments whenever we had time.. but slowly we start to lose contact ..

And I start to feel that he has turned into some kind of other person..

After some time until now we used to pass each other as if like we had never known each other..

Now, I feel that he thinks that I'm the one who ended our friendship..

Before, I told him that his girlfriend is having an affair on him.. ( this is true, his gf told me herself ) .. I feel really guilty if I dont tell him about this.. after I told him.. He broke up with this girl who he really love.. and I feel that he start to blame me because of what happen..

we also have an extra class together now... but it's hard to approach him .. How should I approach him? His friend = my girlfriend ex-boyfriend.. It's hard ...

Answer 1

Go up to him and say you'd like to talk.Tell him you're sorry that you two don't talk any more and you miss being his friend and having him around.Let him know that you're also sorry that you were the one who had to tell him about his ex but you only did because you care for him and didn't want him being made a fool of by her.Let him know you're still there for him whenever he needs you and then let him make the next move.

Answer 2

Just walk up to him, and tell him u wanna talk, tell him u miss him, and u want back his friendship, if he really blames u, then he will shout at u and burst his anger on u, but his anger with actually decrease, and slowly everything will be fine, be patient and give it some time