I miss this girl so much i feel so depressed and i want to commit suicide. what should i do?

Question

i need serious help please

Answer 1

The older I get, the more I enjoy Saturday mornings. Perhaps it's the quiet solitude that comes with being the first to rise, or maybe it's the unbounded joy of not having to be at work. Either way, the first few hours of a Saturday morning are most enjoyable.

A few weeks ago, I was shuffling toward the garage with a steaming cup of coffee in one hand and the morning paper in the other. What began as a typical Saturday morning turned into one of those lessons that life seems to hand you from time to time. Let me tell you about it:

I turned the dial up into the phone portion of the band on my ham radio in order to listen to a Saturday morning swap net. Along the way, I came across an older sounding chap, with a tremendous signal and a golden voice. You know the kind; he sounded like he should be in the broadcasting business. He was telling whomever he was talking with something about 'a thousand marbles.' Iwas intrigued and stopped to listen to what he had to say.

'Well, Tom, it sure sounds like you're busy with your job. I'm sure they pay you well but it's a shame you have to be away from home and your family so much. Hard to believe a young fellow should have to work sixty or seventy hours a week to make ends meet. It's too bad you missed your daughter's dance recital he continued. 'Let me tell you something that has helped me keep my own priorities.' And that's when he began to explain his theory of a 'thousand marbles.

You see, I sat down one day and did a little arithmetic. The average person lives about seventy-five years. I know, some live more and some live less, but on average, folks live about seventy-five years.

Now then, I multiplied 75 times 52 and I came up with 3900, which is the number of Saturdays that the average person has in their entire lifetime. Now, stick with me, Tom, I'm getting to the important part.

It took me until I was fifty-five years old to think about all this in any

detail', he went on, 'and by that time I had lived through over twenty-eight hundred Saturdays. I got to thinking that if I lived to be seventy-five, I only had about a thousand of them left to enjoy. So I went to a toy store and bought every single marble they had. I ended up having to visit three toy stores to round up 1000 marbles! I took them home and put them inside a large, clear plastic container right here in the shack next to my gear.

Every Saturday since then, I have taken one marble out and thrown it away. I found that by watching the marbles diminish, I focused more on the really important things in life.

There's nothing like watching your time here on this earth run out to help get your priorities straight.

Now let me tell you one last thing before I sign-off and go out for breakfast. This morning, I took the very last marble out of the container. I figure that if I make it until next Saturday then I have

been given a little extra time. And the one thing we can all use is a little more time.

Answer 2

Would you really kill yourself over another human being who probably doesnt matter anyway?

At this point, its not about her, its about you. Look for someone else to be with. If its a breakup, then its understandable. Break ups are hard to get over. But once you do, you'll be looking back at this and think to yourself about how silly you were to be thinking this way :P

Its not that bad that you need to die.  

Answer 3

You are going through the grieving process, something that is normal and everyone experiences it at one time or another.  It's not permanent, and you should look at it as a learning experience.  There will be another person that will come along, maybe not tomorrow, or next week or even this year...but it will happen, and probably when you least expect it.  Someone once told me to always have a smile because you never know if someone will fall in love with it.  I've loved and lost too, and it hurt deeply, but had to move on...and so do you.  Nothing is permanent except death, and those that you love and love you will never get over your death.  It's okay to hurt, but you will be okay in the long run.  And give yourself time, don't give your heart to the next person to come along, that is a rebound and those fail most of the time.  (If you want more advice, you can contact me at [e-mail] I am "shoesbetch"'s mom)

Answer 4

Realize that there is plenty of pu$$% and there is  much more to live for so insted of commiting suicide. Die with your honor.

Answer 5

Yes you do. Go see a doctor ASAP. This feeling is temporary, sweetie. Go talk to someone NOW.  

Answer 6

Hi,

I am very sorry to know that you are suffering so much.  You sound like a very wonderful and loving person.

If you commit suicide, you would not give a chance to the relationship, to your girlfriend or to yourself.  She will miss you and would not be able to be with you.

You see, sometimes a love relationship does not work with the formula that we want.  This is not a reason why it should not work at all.  You both can work it out so you can rescue the friendship, which is the base of all the human-divine relationships.

I am going to pray for you and ask God to give you the Grace of courage, of joy and to fill you with his Love - so that this gives you the strength to keep on loving her in the many, many forms that are available to us.

Blessings and love to you,

Agua

Answer 7

I know what you mean. He left me six months ago for a great girl. The first month was bad but not too bad, because it hadn't fully sunk in. By the third month I wanted to die. After all, what was there to live for if he was gone? I made it through that third month, then the fourth, then the fifth. Now here I am six months later and when I ask myself the same, "What is there to live for if he's gone?" I answer with "Myself, my parents, my friends, these experiences, new people - everything." Hang in there. Cry when you feel like crying and punch a punching bag when you feel like hitting something. I used to break glasses I was so upset. I got all of those feelings out, because if they stay inside they can make you want to take it out on yourself (e.g. suicide). If you just can't shake it or even if you just want a little extra help, get a psychologist, check out some books on getting over someone/depression, or message me. He was my world for five years. If I can do it, you can do it.

Answer 8

yea it took a good 3 years to get over someone that I really liked, but she didn't quite feel the same way towards me; I still catch myself thinking about her from time to time. A lot of people have gone through the same thing- its not worth killing your self over. Idk if ur religious, but I think you only get one life, and thats it. Just try and get the most out of it.  

Answer 9

A heartbreak hurts but, trust me you'll get over it.  The only thing to heal a broken heart is time though.  Just try and keep it in perspective.  Better to love and lose than never have loved at all. It's a cliche but true-everyone goes through this and it's normal to feel that way.  Eat some ice cream and watch a Law and Order Marathon.