I moved out of my parent's house when i was 12. I need help?

Question

ok. so i am 15 now and i moved out of my mom's house when i was 12. It all started when she got this boyfriend that didn't like me. They got engaged but he said that they can't get married until I am out of the picture. In other words, my mom had to pick between me and him. She chose him and I moved out. What do you guys think of this? She Hasn't contacted me in a while and I'm sure she could care less. Its not really a question but I would really like some opinions and thoughts on my situation. Should I forget about that family and just focused on my new one or what. Thanks for reading this

Answer 1

i would focus on my education, doing the right thing and being good to yourself and your "new family"

Your mother  was wrong in allowing a man to make her chose him or you.  If that would have happened in my life, i would have opened the door for the jerk and tell him to never come back.  

I know it hurts and I'm sorry for your pain, but it is truly her loss.  One that she will regret.   Love and be grateful for the family you have.  Sounds like they are good people.

Good luck to you.

Answer 2

just the god can help you  

Answer 3

well that was mean!!she chose some guy over her own flesh and blood.she may not like you as mutch as him(btw im a girl!!)wow...brutal!!

Answer 4

HELLO?!?!? are you hearing yourslef ? She practically abanded you!

Your own flesh and blood! I think yuo should stay focused on the family your with. You deserve all the love and respect you need and if she can't do that for her on child well I don't call that a mom. soo stay focused on your family that your with and everything will turn out right~ Good luck!

Answer 5

sure uu did on you some how payed for food and water and a home and got a computer and internet...

but if you wann be like that kill your mom and her bf and steal all ther money

Answer 6

so sorry to hear that your mother would pick a stranger over family

if I were you I would move forward with your life & forget about her

why bother ??she is a loser for making you leave.

I hope you have a better life with the family you are with now & that they treat you with love & respect that you so deserve

Answer 7

How difficult for you, you love and resent your mother in equal measure.

I think that for now, you should just focus on your new family. My reason for saying is because it's likely that if you do get in touch with your mother, even though you love her, your resentment towards her is much more likely to make its presence felt than your love, especially if the selfsame man is in the picture.

And how awful of him to force her to make such a choice. That alone makes him scum in my estimation.