I nearly cheated, should I tell my girlfriend about it?

Question

Got drunk and was flirting with this girl who isn't my boyfriend, came very close to cheating, I feel extremely guilty even though I nothing happened....should I tell my girlfriend (if you think I should please explain what way you think is best)?

Answer 1

If nothing happened, then just let the matter go.

Good luck xX

Answer 2

No. That's like telling someone you're in love with them when you know they'll feel guilty and won't love you back, it just silently ruins the relationships.

Don't tell her, she'll just worry no matter how much you say you're sorry or it was a drunken accident.

Answer 3

would you want her to tell you if she had done what you did?

Answer 4

yes... cause even that "close.. didn't quite do it" could get you in trouble if she finds out from someone else!

There's no best way, just be honest with her & tell her how you really feel about her or how much she means to you.. and try not to go there again.. or she'll lose trust in you.

Answer 5

thats not cheating!

Answer 6

I personally wouldn't. I mean you didn't actually cheat. if you feel you could possibly cheat you need to think about how happy you are in your current relationship

Answer 7

I dunno. Do you love her and want to have a good relationship? Then you should tell her. If you don't care, then whatever.  

Answer 8

Yeah... you never know if she will over react or not, If somebody else tells her... it would be allot worse.  

Answer 9

i really dont think you have to tell her. if you two were in a relationship for a while you can tell her if you feel like honesty plays a big part. but unless you dont think you can confess then dont. plus if you didnt do anything with the girl then i dont think it was cheating.

Answer 10

Ok so you almost cheated on ur boyfriend ? Look at ur question again next time you post one.....no don't tell if nothing happen  

Answer 11

confused first you say boyfriend then you say girlfriend are you bisexual

Answer 12

h**l no

Answer 13

Nope, what they dont know cant hurt them (or you)

Answer 14

You need to ask yourself whether the drinking or something else made you nearly cheat.  If it was drinking, watch the drinking.  If you are questioning your relationship, sit down and think about whether the relationship is worth keeping.  Now, should you tell?  If the girl who you were flirting with knows your girlfriend, you probably should tell her because if the girl who you were playing with feels that you are being a "jerk" she may tell your girlfriend.  If neither girl knows each other, let it go and move on.

Answer 15

That isnt nearly cheating.

Chill.

Answer 16

yes, you should definitley tell your girlfriend.

this recently happened to my friend, except she did end up cheating, and she wasn't drunk, lmfao.

you just need to tell her straight up, start a conversation as usual, and then interrupt her mid sentence and say, "i feel so guitly ___, i almost cheated on you and it's killing me inside. i stopped myself before i did, but i was drunk and flirting with this girl. i hope you can forgive me because i really want you in my life and that was a huge mistake."

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Answer 17

No, you shouldn't tell your girlfriend.  What you need to do is make sure you're in control of your drinking and flirting when the next cute girl comes along, so that it doesn't go further at all.  However, if you do end up cheating, then yes, you should tell her.

Answer 18

YES.

She'll be happy that you were loyal and didnt.

Just say this 'I saw your face, and I heard your voice inside my head telling me you loved me, so I left.'

She'll be happy[;

Answer 19

NO!!!!

have a nice day adn dont fok up

Answer 20

you flirted with as girl who isn't your boyfriend ?....that happens when you don't pick and stay with one team ...or...you wander into a straight club by accident. ..  Either way, your girlfriend doesn't have to know something.. that she really doesn't have to know.

Answer 21

are you g*y?

Answer 22

if a guy told me that he nearly cheated but didnt, then i would feel very privileged that he felt enough for me to stop in time. everyone gets tempted sometimes, but the thing is you didnt do it,  

Answer 23

i wouldnt but prehaps you should also watch how much ur drinking when ur out without ur girlf, if ur capable of cheating on her when ur drunk try and stay in control when shes not around.

x

Answer 24

well i tikj you should tell her

but tell her when she did somethign wrong so that like you could say wel you did that  

Answer 25

I really think you should just tell her. She may or may not have a bad reaction but there are ways around that. Like if you said you got drunk at the party and some girl was getting friendly, but nothing happened, it might be a little more subtle to say. Don't even make a big deal out of it. But for some reason, I think it would be more than fair to just let her know. But no, it's not cheating.