I need HELP with my dad...this is serious!!?

Question

Ok my parents just divorced like a year and a half ago....Because he was cheating on my mom with this women named Rita.....And supposly they had already been dating for like almost TWO YEARS....

So there still kicking a lot and almost going on 4......And I have only seen her 3 times over dinner with her my older sis and my dad......

So he is about to move houses in a few months and there is nothing wrong with wat he has now.....but he wants a bigger one....but why a bigger one....So im thinking there moving in together meaning at times I will live there to....So like there is nothing wrong with her..shes nice but why won't he say anything to me....cause if there moving in together...this means there going to get married(4 years!!)......So like im trying to figure out wats going on with him...should I ask him wats going on or should I just wait and see wat happens..........And also wat do you think of this situation???.

PLEASE HELP IM CONFUSED!!!!!!!!!

I Have posted this once and I didnt find help with the other answers I got....I only had 3 answers....HELP

Answer 1

Of course ask him. Communication is going to be very important. I'm glad you like her..that is important too. Be glad the house will have room so you can all have your own space. If you feel upset or need to get away from them, it will help.Take care  

Answer 2

First of all just because they're possibly moving in together doesn't mean they're getting married and I am sorry to say this but you're just a kid, and the sucky part is your dad is an adult and doesn't have to share his personal life with you until he decides to . and maybe you're just blowing this out of porpotion and they aren't moving in together. Either way relax and everything will work out in the end, they always do. Oh another thing a real good way to find out too, ask your dad!!

Answer 3

I think you need to talk to him. Communication is the key. My parents are divorced and have been divorced for about 6 years, I know it sucks. You should have an open and loving relationship with your dad and you should not have a problem talking to him. Just be like "Hey Dad... and then just ask him what ever you need too. I'm sure he loves you, so he should listen. I'm sorry your parents are divorced, it's such an ugly thing that hurts the kids, parents, and even other family members and friends. I hope that every thing turns out ok. good luck..

Answer 4

i guess u could ask him but dont be accuse him of anything.  it sounds like they will get married though.

Answer 5

oh. that's difficult..

if i was in your situation, i'd ask him. then you could make it clear..after knowing the details, you could email me. i am sooooooo willing to help...how old are you anyway?