I need Help! My parents are seperated....?

Question

Very long story short...I grew up w/o my dad, my mom took care of me and my brother and sisters, she is an immigrant to this country. She now feels that we r closer to my dad since he spoils us and feels we forgot about her. She has the worst outlook on life and feels that i should have hatred for m dad. Dealing with her gets harder and harder each day, we ask her to sit down and talk and that gets nowhere because she constaly reminds of how much she took care of us and how our dad is a dead beat.She is always bitter and never enjoys life and what she has. Although she says she happy she isnt, her angry towards me and my sister is draining me, I try sitting and approaching her in a different matter but due to the difference in education we have and how she's from another country, yet i feel i am going backwards talking to her. she wont accept any new ideas, she basically driving me insanse. I smoke pot, becasue thats my only release.. I dont know what to do, please help....

Answer 1

stupid kid. dont smoke pot, its not going to solve issues at all.

Answer 2

First of all smoking pot is great, but it wont solve your problems and shows how weak minded you are.

You have to respect your mom for providing for you guys all these years, but there has to be some limits. Since your dad left her with all this responsibility I'm not sure you'll ever be able to convince her to accept your father. The problems between your mother and your father were there long before you were.

Just tell her that you believe in second chances and that you feel your father deserves one. Explain to her that you do not want to spread hate or harbor ill feelings toward a family member. Just my thought if you can't forgive a family member who can you forgive?

Answer 3

Quit pot..ur answers are in the church..attend a Catholic Mass