I need Help On How To Make My Husband....?

Question

My husband is driving me crazy. Well old friend of my husband’s was staying with us for over 3mo, my husband invited him over to stay for a few weeks till he gets back on his feet, but his stayed 3 mo till he met this girl and I made him move out since I was making 70% of the income. Now he broke up with that girl and staying in motels and my husband keeps driving him back and forth to work ‘cause he keeps calling him and I’m getting sick of it ‘cause it cost money to drive around and my husband keeps withdrawing money from the account for gas since he lives 30min a way from his job. He keeps telling my husband he will pay how he’s going to pay him when he didn’t pay us for rent the whole time he lived in our home. The guy is 34yr old on drugs that’s why his ex kicked him out. Husband is 32 I’m 23. My husband gets mad every time I tell him how sick I'm from him letting his friend use him.

Answer 1

That is ridiculous. Your husband needs to stop what he's doing. You are his priority, period. His friend is a loser and your husband is too nice for his own good. Put your foot down and tell him how it makes u feel. Just cuz you love your husband doesn't mean you can let things (like this) slide. There are limits and he needs to see you enforce the rules, woman.

Good luck to you!

Answer 2

i am going through almost the same thing but it is my husband's brother. tell him you have had it and put all the money you make in another account dont let him spend all of your hard earned money on his friends  

Answer 3

Tell him to chose between you and his idiot friend.

Answer 4

tell your husband that you are sick and tired of it. if he wants to be a spouse to a grown man with no intensions of growing up, then he can. tell him that he has a family of his own and he is not helping by supporting someone else that is living off of wht yall have. let him know because he is messing things up for the both of you

Answer 5

Well he needs to understand that you come first and that he iis not teenage child. So tell him if helps his friend you will leave.