I need a boys imput.?

Question

so me and my boyfriend have been dating for five months today.

i went out with family and he worked until 6 today.

no happy five months or anything.

so when he got off i texted him this.

Me:"hey?"

him:"what?"

me:"I ve been trying to text you "

him:"Sorry i m shoppping"

me:"ok i guess you forgot about me"

him:"no its just hard to text you while i m shopping"

me:"ok text me when you can i love you"

him:"ok hun"

so three hours later he texts me.

him"whe are you coming home?"

me:"2 hours"

him:where are you?

me:dropping my cousin off in marynland.

him: you didnt tell me you wre going there.

me: i tried but you were shopping.

him:ok sorry.

me:yeah ok, so why didnt oyu say i love you when i said bye?

him:i wwasnt thinking i love u.

me:alrihgt.

him:when you coming home?

me: couple of hours.

than nothing after that..

2 horus later i call him and hes playing games with his brother.

hes 17 and so ami.

he says he loves me and doesnt wanna break up.

hes one to keep his feelngs to himself when it comes to aruging.

he said he was sorry.

but i kept texting ihm saying how mad it makes me.

we ve always done this.

he just stops texting me for no reason.

so idont know.

so i play hard to get?

or whar do i say for him to get it?

is there some magical word i can say to let him know ohw mucih is hurts and bugs me and get an naswer out of ihmm.

is this a tyipcal guy thing?

Answer 1

fraid so

Answer 2

unfortunately that's how most guys are, theres no changing it.

Answer 3

typical dont think too much pof it

Answer 4

sry I'm not a boy but ya that is a typical guy thing and another tipical thing is if you keep texting him he going to tell you that he thinks your annoying because you always texting and guys don't always say I love you its not something they like saying alot...

   Hope that helps you  

Answer 5

do you annoy the sh*t out of him like that every day or were you just making a special effort that day

Answer 6

eventually after nagging enough it gets annoying.....same for everyone.....no offense or n e thing, but sometimes you just gotta let your feelings go cuz guys care, but sometimes they dont wanna hear the whining

Answer 7

yes it is put up with it!

Answer 8

I'm older but I do know that young guys don't like to be pressured into saying those three words... when you get older guys will start saying them to get you to "give it up"....

Just give him space - don't chase him...

Answer 9

you're too good for him

Answer 10

sounds like you spend to much time texting one liners that have no meaning and not making the freaking phone call and talking...  

Answer 11

I stopped listening after "so three hours later he helps me."

Hope that I helped!!! =)

Answer 12

Yes some guys (like me) find it annoying to frequienly get out their cell phones and text, dont always text him nonstop thats why i broke up with my old gf

Answer 13

Your pissed off because the guy didn't think a five month aniversary was especially important and he didn't say "I love you" on a text? Give the guy a break. If he says he likes you and is affectionate most of the time and says I love you, give it a rest. Don't make it seem like work or he'll get tired --- and that will be it.

Answer 14

There is no such thing as a typical guy.

Every guy is different; What part of that don't you understand.

We have lives. We are busy. Usually when people are focused on something they don't think of other things.

We are determined to do things without distractions.

Answer 15

i think you shouldn't just text him. you guys should talk about it in person. face-to-face