I need a girls advice?

Question

I have been wondering something.My girl and me are fairly close to each other and I am pretty sure she loves me very much.She told me the other day that she is going to get a tatoo from a guy who I know for a fact is a male w***e.She expects me to trust her and I do (I think).but the problem that i am having is that before we started dateing she was kind of a w***e.She liked to party and sleep with alot of guys.I trust her that if he trys something on her that she will not do anything.but do you think that I am wasteing my time.is it only a matter of time before she drifts off.she tells me she has never cheated on anyone and that she really loves me.should I trust her and have no doubt or should I always keep an eye on her.She is always telling me she loves me and that she is mine forever and I believe her but is it only a matter of time before she wants that life back.I am 25 and she is 18.she acts like she is older.she is very responsable but I worry that what if she doesn't really know what she wants.She is only 18.she has already told me that if we ever broke up she would still sleep with defferent guys.CAN I TRUST HER OR IS IT ONLY A MATTER OF TIME BEFORE SHE WANTS MORE THAN ONE GUY.

Answer 1

I think I would be more worried about STD's.Than just a tatoo.

Answer 2

Adam only you know if you can trust her or not. But your situations sounds all too familiar to me so I'll try my best to answer you. I was like your girl in my teens...my boyfriend was 6 years older than me. I was in a *serious* relationship with him. Although I was sensible at times, I was definitely naive. Even when I'd flirt with almost any guy, I was actually unaware that that's "cheating." I'd openly tell my boyfriend it isn't cheating, cos I'm not having s*x with them. And if we argue, that would be an enough excuse to go flirting again.

So even if your gf says she's not cheating, it may also be because she THINKS it's not cheating...but obviously, she should consider your feelings too. At this stage...it's looking like a bad picture. She is obviously not *mature* enough to be in your idea of a stable relationship. She may not really know what she wants.....my advice is to give her time to grow as a person, on her own..this way, you also focus on your own life. At the end of the day...it's your choice, not mine or anyone else's. Good luck.

Answer 3

It's a good question.  Just have this talk with her.  Tell her you love her and realizes that she loves you.  You know about her past, and to ease your fears, would she, if she ever decides she wants someone else, to please tell you first and end the relationship so you won't waste each other's time or hurt each other.  Promise to do the same for her.  BUT WHAT YOU CAN"T DO is live in fear.  Trust is hard.  Go with her to get the tattoo.  Simple.  Just because she likes s*x doesn't make her a w***e.  Maybe she really likes s*x.  That is one of the things you even like about her probably.  So make sure to keep her happy in the bedroom and she won't want to go anywhere else.  You are older and more mature.  You know dating someone that much younger is going to be like that.  She is capable of monogamy and she told you she would be with just you.  You can ruin it if you are jealous and insecure.  We like a confidence man who knows he's got it going on....  She won't just drift off if you continue to doubt her, she will run!

Answer 4

There is no way to give you a positive answer.  Everyone makes mistakes.  Hre past may be her past.  Her intentions may be good enough.  All you can do is have faith in her.  I f she hasn't given you any reason not to trust her during your relationship then trust her, but you will never have conrol over any woman you date.  and it doesn't matter how many ppl a person has been with in the past thwey are still able to cheat.  If you want go with her to get the tattoo