I need a guys opinion!?

Question

Ok so im a sophmore and i have a hard time getting guys to notice me,

like i dont think im ugly or anything but sometimes i have really low

self esteem and i think im fat.

i wear size 11 jeans, but i have a butt

im a 34c

and im 5'7 in a half.

i play basketball.

i have light brown hair & hazel eyes.

what do you think?

and what should i do to get guys to notice me

and start liking me

and also guys think im a good girl because ive never done anything witha guy

but its not that i wouldnt, ive just never been given the opportunity.

so please help!

Answer 1

don't rush the Right guy will notice you

Answer 2

show me a picture of your self and ur butt

Answer 3

sorry but you are too desperate

Answer 4

id say ur on average, ur prlly more on the attractive side. u gotta give it sume time guys will notice u, but if u really wanna spark a guy, make it seem like u like him, if tht doesnt have his a ttention then stop and then he might wonder what happened, the point is make urself noticable, and theres nothing wrong with being a good girl, virgins are way more attractive then a girl thts been lying around with alot of other guys.

Answer 5

chance r theyv already noticed u, but they cant get the guts to try w/u

just talk to a guy,that u find interesting, and , h**l notice you,i know i would [juging by your description]

Answer 6

thats not too big but u need confidence walk into a group of guys and make out with one of them the more popular the better

Answer 7

you should focus on school right now, and go to college and graduate, dont be thinking about guys right now, that can come later.

Answer 8

d**n just the way i like them THICK , well u can come to my house and i will give u the opportunity ,dress maybe a little more sexier

Answer 9

well size 11 jean is pretty big i would just try to loose some weight..and be yourself. don't worry about it to much you'll find someone

Answer 10

From the sound of it there is nothing wrong with you

I think you may want men to notice you for the wrong reasons.

you shouldn't alter your look to make yourself noticeable or else your going to attract the wrong type of guy.

You should probably get into some Co-ed stuff or clubs that you may be interested in that have more guy members than girls.

Answer 11

i know you've heard this a million times, But there is nothing prettier then confidence. Guys like girls who are very confident in themselves, and if you think you are ugly, other people will too because thats all they here from you. You should love yourself and not care what they think, and I promise you'll get some guys wanting you. Good luck! Hope this helps:)  

Answer 12

lame

Answer 13

Take the initiative, go after a guy.  Most guys at that age are a bit dense, you have to be blunt to get their attention.

Answer 14

ok put yourself out there more , talk to more guys and be s**y and you! youll find someone fo sho!

Answer 15

Please don't pay attention to the comments about your weight, you are FINE!!! You're 5'7 for god's sake!!! That's tall, size 11 I'm sure is perfect for your frame. You're into sports so you're getting exercise. & a lot of guys like a healthy butt :)

Remember that guys your age (& older!) are still about 2 years behind in maturity & really don't have a clue about girls anyway. They may think they do & may make YOU think they do but most do not  (case-in-point, just read some of these poster's comments!!).

Confidence IS key, tho. Even if you're not really feelin' it, pretend, while staying focused on your education, sports & girlfriends & you'll be successful. This is the way to build up true confidence.

Don't try too hard to impress the guys. If you're yourself, they'll notice & it'll be the ones you WANT to notice.

You're young. Things get much better the older you get...believe that!

Answer 16

Well you won't get very far in life if you keep thinking your fat and ugly. Guys really won't talk to girls unless the girl comes to them. So just say hi and smile at first, then work your way to just talking to them. If you interested in a guy, just ask him a whole bunch of questions and make him talk about him self. Everybody loves talking about them selves.

Also, if you wants a guy's attention, dress up a little. Don't be waring a sweat shirt and baggy jeans. Wear something that's a bit outgoing but not to revealing.

Once you have established at relationship with a guy just take it slow!  Don't rush things just because all of the other girls are having s*x and making out the the hallways. Just take it slow and don't rush things. Not all guys want a girlfriend just to have s*x with. Just go the mall, watch movies at home, go for walks, have study sessions together don't rush anything. And if you feel pressured, just tell him your not conferable. If it turns out he just want s*x, then leave him. DO not rush s*x just because everyone else is doing it.

The point is don't rush love if you not ready for it. The right guy will come along and you will find happiness!  

Answer 17

im a guy...about to be a junior actually...

i dont know measurements cuz im not a perv (srry)

but just have confidence go to a few partys but dont let urself go too much....become knowable and ull find someone...if ur just looking for attention then just wear a miniskirt or no bra....guys are pervs and will always be....well at least alot of them are...hope i helped

Answer 18

It'll happen in its own good time.  You sound attractive.

How about attending more social functions?