I need a hobby but i just can't seem to get myself interested in anything?

Question

so basically i was playing guitar for awhile, but i straight up quit for no reason a while back and i want to play but it always feels like i suck and i'll never be good so i always just give up. and i guess maybe i put myself down to much or give up too easily, because this has seemed to happen with everything i've ever been interested in or tried to pick up.

i was hanging out with some friends yesterday and i noticed how all of them have some "thing" they're into... i want something like that. but i just don't have enough passion for anything or felt that i'm good enough at anything to really get me pumped to do it; well that i've found anyway. or maybe it's a motivational problem, i don't know. i'm just really tired of feeling like i never do anything worth while...

what do you think?

Answer 1

for me,maybe some thing's bothering you.you might be thinking a lot of things what you need fun than what you think...example you didn't play skateboard or collected stamp and other.. maybe u thinks more what u like do. one more important, please try before you really know...

Answer 2

yeah i'm like that too.. my brother always says i'm a quitter

but i started boxing and ive been doing it for a month, its fun a great way to stay fit or get fit in my case... but you never know in a month or 2 i might quit this too

but a hobby needs to be something you want to do not something you feel like you have to..

Answer 3

maybe something's bothering you. You might be thinking a lot of things which you think more fun than playing guitar so you stop that. If you have a lot of options in life, you don't know what are you going to do first. I experienced that. Try to focus yourself in one thing as possible. Slowly but surely you're interest might grow with that thing. Like for example, in playing a guitar. It's really hard to learn but you should have enough patience to learn every chords. Try to play with your peers as frequent as possible. You try to compete with them. When you feel you're getting better in playing a guitar it feels really good when somebody appreciates you. Just try it dude.