I need a lil help from the guys...please ?

Question

Im just wondering, is there a way for my hubby to ejaculate a bit faster ? it always takes an hour or so.. i need some help, i dont like the feeling of gettin sore all the time.. since i cant deny my hubby of s*x..

Answer 1

spice it up...give him more foreplay

Answer 2

Mutual masturbation is always a great way to go out. With a couple notable exceptions, my fiance has never gotten off from oral, anal, handjobs, or vaginal s*x. Dress up in something s**y and "be his p**n".

I get sore pretty easily too, make sure you use lots of lubricant. I switched from regular KY to some more expensive (and much better quality, even though it's "doctor-recommended" the amount of glycerin in KY is h**l on sensitive women) silicone lubricant and haven't ever been happier.

The notable exceptions that I mentioned earlier were caused by experiments with clitoral stimulating gels diluted in lubricant.Unfortunately, while he was able to achieve o****m, he was always sore and sensitive for a couple days afterward each time we tried it. Which got me off the hook, of course, but it made him wary of trying it again.

The O'My (wicked strong amazing stuff) Pleasure Gel is one of my all time favorite adult products, a water-based topical ointment containing menthol for a slight tingling sensation and L-Arginine formulated for topical application. You massage (a tear-drop sized amount, any more and you're going to be running bare-*** naked down the street!) it into the clitoris (or head of the p***s) for about twenty seconds, and after the tingle fades off (maybe a minute) what you're left with is increased sensitivity to the nerve endings. L-Arginine has this nifty effect of engorging the capillaries in erectile tissue, and it's more than worth the $19.95, even if it does prove a little strong for him. The System JO stimulating gel might be better suited for men as well as women, since it comes in "Light", "Mild", and "Wild". strengths, but I haven't tested it on him yet. Kama Sutra brand makes an edible stimulating gel available in spearmint, strawberry, raspberry, and tangerines and cream that tingles and does not contain L-Arginine. I've heard good things come back from both men and women who have bought it, but haven't tried any of them personally.

Good luck!

:)

Answer 3

Just try being as s**y as you can to get him as horny as possible! LOL. That's about it. You could try making it bigger and see if that works. Or just try giving him a ******** that should work. IDK this is a really funny question tho. Good luck! Hope this helped.

Answer 4

Have him pick up masturbation. It will alow him to become used to ejaculating faster, and thus when he gets to you he will be much faster at cumming. It's kinda like the "practice makes perfect" idea.

Answer 5

Not to get to personal, but do you do foreplay? I mean, grabbing it for him and doing that for a while should be plenty to get him excited, get him to go faster if anything. I'm assuming he is probably circumcised as well, that plays a factor since the nerves in the head aren't as sensitive so it can take longer to ejaculate. He might even be able to go faster and he wouldn't say anything because a lot of guys sometimes have the feeling that women like to take a long time while in bed. Try talking to him about it, and tell him you get sore afterward. He would probably be sympathetic about it.

Answer 6

Do something that excites him alot, that'll help him do his business faster ;)

Answer 7

do a better job at whatever it is your doing

Answer 8

lots of foreplay and teasing before actual intercourse. Maybe pop in a porno or put on some s**y lingerie.  

Answer 9

Have you tried prostate massage

Not only will it get him off quicker he will come a lot harder

It has been known to leave a man light headed and dehydrated

Answer 10

Have better s*x?

Answer 11

try anal

Answer 12

Is he on any medciations like anti-depressants?

Answer 13

It could be due to meds he is taking especially if he is taking an anti-depressants. If he is taking any meds you might want to check the side affects. All anti-depressants make it difficult for men and women to climax.

Answer 14

Maybe you need to go faster. I dunno

Answer 15

Go fast and strech out your legs.

Hope this helps