I need a little bit of advise, Please.?

Question

My husband wants another baby, we have 3 already, should I give him what he wants?

Answer 1

if YOU would like another baby too then why not? if he helps you do the work too then i don't see the big deal- but if he's the type of guy that never does the diaper changes or doesnt give youa  atime out for a shower then i dont know if i would

Answer 2

Well, this is obviously a very personal matter and totally up to you. I am catholic and catholic marriages are focused to have "as many kids as God sends you".That is the ideal, but you may not agree with this. It gets my attention that you did not discuss this with him before you got married, but nevertheless, does he have any religious beleifs to support his wish? I mean, if there aren't, if he only wants to have more babies because he loves them, etc, then you should reach an agreement (after all, we women are the ones who give birth!) and you could object, if you don't want to. What I don't know is what kind of argument this will rise between both of you, I don't know if it is a total requirement for him or you can agree into something different. Why don't you tell him that the economical situation right now is not appropriate and to wait a few months? And then you tell him to wait some more months...and so on.

Answer 3

Not if you don't want a baby more than he wants one.  You both need to be excited about another baby, he or she deserves it.  

Answer 4

To me 3 sounds like enough, but children bring us the greatest joy in life. I think that having more children will be better for you when you are older and they can take care of you. I also think that children need siblings to play with and the more the merrier. But it is a serious decision that you two should make together.  

Answer 5

It's not about wt "He" wants it's about wt "You both" want,due all the respect to u husband ,you both should feel okay about having another baby,not only u and not only him but a combined decision,so if u feel okay also about having another baby then go a head :) if not then u should talk to him about it :) i'm sure he will be understanding in both ways  

Answer 6

only if you both want it. you shouldnt do something you may be unhappy with down the road. try making a list of the pros and cons about having another. good luck!

Answer 7

Do you want another baby?  If not, then no.  You should only have another baby if it is what both of you want.

Answer 8

You should ask yourself first.  Don't forget to look out for #1.  Your needs first.  Then your children.  Then your husband.  

Answer 9

not unless you also want it!

Never feel pressured into anything your not 100% SURE of.

My partner has already expressed he would like another child - of first is not yet a year!

I am sure once my baby boy is no longer a baby - i might like another - but remind yourself of how much of yourself you give to the little darlings and maybe take time to think about life with a newborn - sleepless nights, constant feeding etc... not just the cute little baby before you decide.

Am sure by the time my lil boy is older I will have forgotten all of the mayhem, but i promise myself i will remember both the pro's and the cons before i make a decision.

Answer 10

I think U both deserve a fourth child.

Answer 11

That is completely up to you!!

If you think that you could handle it, or that your body can handle it then consider it.

If you don't think you could then its outta the question!

Just my opinion!

I had the opposite problem, i wanted another one and my husband didn't.