My dad and I have been at odds for a little over a year but recently it's been getting pretty out of hand. He's 41and I'm 13. A couple months ago a friend and I decided that we were going to go to Busch Gardens the weekend I ended work that just so happened to be this weekend. My dad said he would take us because it was the perfect opportunity for him to spend time with my mom my sister and my bro. Then recently he said no. absolutely not. I asked why and he said this:
You treat me with disrepect
I don't hear the 'disrepctfull' tone in my voice that he talks about.
The he said:
You always demand so much and never give back
So I told him that I gave back plenty. I donated 150 hours to volunteer work this summer. And so he told me that I didn't give back to him.
Wtf, is he joking? I don't give back to him? That had to be the most selfish thing I had ever heard! of course I didn't tell him that.
He then told me that since I always demand so much from him but never give back in return then he simply wasn't going to do anything for me and I had to do everything for him! Isn't that considered child neglect or child abuse or something.
He yelled at me again and me clean the house and "depending on my attitude tomorrow depends on wheather or not I had to clean my brothers bathroom/bedroom" I don't get it. I tried to be nice but he told me I was ***hole (no lie) I tried just to ignore him and only answer his questions and he told me I was being disrespectfull and to "change my tone" he decided I deserved nothing and it was "all about him".
I'm so confused, how can I get him to cool off? and how can I earn back my trip with my friend? I'm so stuck...
sorry If I'm coming off as a brat, I'm not trying to, oh and how can I watch the tone in my voice so it doesn't sound "snotty and disrespectfull" because I can't hear it....
I need help
Please please please help
I'm so miserable.
Thanks for all the answers
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