I need a reason to call my ex, PLEASE HELP ME?

Question

my ex has called me serveral times telling me as soon as he sees my baby girl he is going to kill her himself. im due in december. we broke up because i wouldnt abort and now he calls me telling me how he cant wait to kill her, sick right? i changed my number and contacted a lawyer. the lawyer told me to call him, put my phone on speaker, and buy a recorder. this was in court they will hear his voice telling me he is going to kill my baby. i talked to the lawyer and we couldnt think of anything to say so he doesnt hang up and so its not suspecious... once i have the threats recorded the lawyer told me i have nothing to worry about. he is scaring me and i dont want my baby to be with him, please someone help me! thank you so much.

i need a reason to call and i don't want him to be suspecious, i want his threats to run wild.. i just have no reason to call.. and he might not open up lol

Answer 1

It depends on how long you were together, and how close you were. If you were close enough that he gave you any items (cd's, movies,etc.) then you could try saying that you came across something of his, and you want to know if he wants it or if you are to pitch it. Or you could even go so far as to say that you need his medical history since he won't be around in the future for the baby, in case something would happen to your baby that you would need to know all his medical info. If you say that, it will get him talking about the baby, so that might be the better option.  I seriously hope you get this worked out. He sounds mental, I can see why you're afraid. Good luck, and good luck with the baby.

Answer 2

ask for money, that should annoy him enough. good luck

Answer 3

maybe u can call him and give him a warning. be like dont you ever come near me and my baby. ya know?  then maybe he'll say what he has to say. your welcome & i wish you and your baby luck :]

Answer 4

Omg what a syco!

Answer 5

wow! Sound like you have a problem. This sounds really serious.. and you need alot of help! So I can try my best! First off.. you dont need a reason to call him. You can call him and maybe say your going into early labor.. and need him to take you to the doctor.. or you could say that you were thinking about taking him to court for the threats.. and if he really means them.. he will tell you it again... and trap himself in that hole.

Good luck to you.

Email me if you want to discuss this further.

I can help you (:

Stay strong (:

Answer 6

tell him that the baby was early and so its alive already and then he'll say how he's gonna kill it

Answer 7

Oh my god that is so sad im so sorry but um... you could try to say like im not going to let you touch my baby or something and then he might threatening. Good luck.

Answer 8

i would call him and tell him that you really wanted him to be there for your duagther and that you had a doctors appointment and wanted to know if he wanted to come? or tell him that you were wondering if when you had the baby he would come to the hospital and at least see his daughter and maybe he wouldn't want to kill her then. i would make sure i said myself on tape that he said he wanted to kill the baby!!

Answer 9

If he is a serious threat, it seems unwise to try to bait him into anything.  You can easily get a restraining order -- it's not that tough.

Why do you need this recording?  Is your lawyer going to try and press charges for the threats?  If so, it won't keep you or your baby safe for long -- I mean, they won't lock him up forever.  Did he want you to abort the baby?

Let us know what your hoping to ultimately achieve and you might get more valuable advice.  :)

Answer 10

call him to tell him you had to change your number and if he cares to contact you as a adult this is the new one. He will probably start in on the threats or he will call back with them. Either way, have a recorder ready at all times so you can catch him when he does make them. Good luck hun.

Answer 11

you can tell him that u need to have his medical history and you can ask him if he wants to be on the birth certificate....(and if he goes off into a rant about it that's when he will tell u he will kill the baby.) or you can even try to ask if why he want the baby dead so badly. e-mail me if u need someone to talk to.  

Answer 12

text him telling him its your new number ... and wait for him to call you agian i mean you can always keep changing your number .. right ? or you could say you have something of his .. and see if he goes into the whole killing the baby thing .. sorry about your situation .. or be like i wnt you back .. or invite him to a doctors appointment ..  

Answer 13

honestly i'd say just wait, its just a matter of time before he calls again since he's already called several times, just keep your  recorder with you so you can record it as soon as you know its him!!

Answer 14

Call and ask him if you can talk to him about how your feeling. Tell him that you've been thinking and you don't want this baby to grow up without a dad. That gets you onto the topic of the baby, and should be enoughto set him off. If he gets too heated, you can just chalk it up to horomones, and you don't know why you even bothered.

I hope everything works out for you. Thanks for not aborting. You are an amazing strong person!

Answer 15

Call and ask him that you would like him to be part of the baby since hes the father and tell him that its his baby and he should love it.. then maybe he will get all crazy or you can even say why are you like this you wanted a baby>>??