I want to rip into my 20 year old daughter. My 17 year old stayed with her for 1 month, and during that time, we sent $300 to help cover food costs, in addition to the $200 that she left with.
She (20 year old) said that the expenses were $1200 for just food because the 17 year old ate so much (but still coincidentally lost 8 pounds over the month).
The 17 year old told me not to give her anything, and later disclosed that the 20 year old offered to split the $ right down the middle with her, if I coughed up the $1200.
Obviously 17 year old won't be visiting her again, but if I explain why, 20 yr old will have a hundred reasons why this behavior is my fault because I owe her. How do I invite 20 year old to evaluate her behavior critically so she recognizes this isn't in her best interest?
I am angry, trust is broken, and I want to stay away from her because she isn't interested in protecting me or our relationship.
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